My husband has been displaying most of the red flags of cheating. We both are working and have really young kids ( 4 years and 18 months old). But I am the only one who has to juggle work, home and kids chores. He never shares the workload or even if he does it's negligible. He has been emotionally unavailable for the last 10 months and his phone and apps on the phone are password protected. There is no way for me to find evidence on this. Advise pls.

I’m new to teaching AP Art History this coming semester, went through the 30 hours of College Board training but am still a little overwhelmed. How do you make this class manageable and enjoyable for the kids, families and myself?

Can anyone speak to how the hours/WLB (or lack thereof) compare between B4 and Big Law?

I used to get 2-3 productive hours after the kids went to bed to catch up on work, chores, shopping, etc but now I'm struggling to have any motivation after the hour-long process of getting kids down.

Am I horrible wife if I don’t get my husband anything for his bday. I have no idea what to get it’s too stressful. He always gets me stuff.

It really bothers me when I hear kids being referred to as under privileged. We say that to them enough then they start to believe they are less than others 😡

PwC (Cloud Digital practice ) VS. Deloitte (AI Cognitive Data practice ) as Sr Mgr.
Which one has better WLB , Better stability , better growth , learnings….
Where would u go ?

Let’s say you have two young, high income partners in a couple who want to buy a house together but don’t really care to get married. They already live together in an apartment but both want to move to a house to build equity and have a yard, not share walls, etc. Should one partner buy the house and the other pays rent until they get married, or should they get a mortgage together without being married? I realize there isn’t a “right” answer but I’m interested in people’s experiences here.

I know that some other associates at my level are approximately 30% behind other associates in hours on a month to month basis. Yet all of these associates say they are “at capacity”, and myself and another associate still end up being assigned work instead of them. How do we handle this? For reference, all associates are around the firms minimum requirement, it’s just that a few of us are 30+% over and it is leading to burnout.

We get it, ghosting happens. But has it ever happened to you repeatedly by the same person? Cashmere Agency in LA calls me relentlessly and then ghosts me just as relentlessly. Sales Force has done it two or three times as well. I can’t help but laugh and think about how it feels like getting a text from an ex—this didn’t work out before remember? It’s only been a month I’m still me.

Busy season never seems to end. Question, am I burned out or is this normal? I was very stressed during busy season until now. I sort of feel a calm sense of not caring anymore. We have extended our busy season until 5/15, but I really just don’t feel like I care...

I ended my relationship of 6 years about 3 months ago bc he said he might regret not having kids later down the line. we were always on the fence but I’m leaning towards no. It hurts so much having to walk away from an otherwise perfect relationship. Wish this was easier…

Should I take more initiative? It’s my stub year and I’m getting worried. My hours have been super low the past two months, I’m talking like maybe billing 3-4 hours a day and billing no hours on multiple days. I ask for work but the tasks I get don’t require a lot of time. Should I be reaching out more?

What’s the best company in dubai for WLB?

I currently average 60h/week in BCG

Ladies, did you change your last name after getting married? I’m worried about the impact it will have on my publications.

During family prayer - my mom takes nearly 40 minutes every single time (this is 2x a day, morning and night). She speaks a different language and I barely understand. How can I lovingly tell her to take less time?

Hi All,
I am joining EY GDS next month. I have heard a lot about hectic work hours in EY and no work life balance. Is it true? If yes, how many hrs working should we expect in a day to be mentally prepared.

As much as I talk about wanting a man to take care of me financially, I have way too much pride to allow it when it actually happens

Walking into the office with a big smile and saying good morning to everyone you pass on the way to your desk sets a positive tone that lasts all day!

Expect only good things.

Considering trying to make a pivot. Currently a prosecutor. I have a lot of trial experience and did some ID work. Are there any logical roles aside from just litigation to keep an eye on as for as in house? I’ve been thinking there must be some applicability to the investigation skills I’ve developed but I don’t know what the move should or would be. I am coming from a place of ignorance - not sure what would suit my background.

How is your Valentine’s Day?

Any good books for someone trying to understand the business side of marketing? Just got my review an they're asking I bring more of that MBA mindset to projects I'm on.

Anyone from tax can help me on some tax related queries.

Q1-Can I claim LTA and LTA cash voucher both for the current Block?
Q2- In LTA cash voucher scheme i have a total expenditure of only 50K approx so how much can i get as saving for Tax?
Q3 How the above 2 can be claimed during ITR filing?

I have more Questions but if we get replies on these we can discuss further.
This can help everyone

@ those who have gotten their H1 stamped - Can we use the auto generated employment verification letter from ToD for H1B stamping Interview? Or do we have to get a separate letter signed by a Manager?

Is it true that Vanguad’s open an account page has been down for month? Only way to open an account is it to call and mail in app?

Hi All, I have completed my technical interview on 6th Dec,2022 and received mail from HR on 7th Dec to upload documents on ibegin portal my status is changed to evaluated yesterday. I still haven't received any mail from HR regarding the HR interview or any further steps. What does this mean? Can I consider that I have chances or am I rejected?

what is the % of appraisal you got today versus your rating. Is it correct that annual appraisal is always higher than that of mid term appraisal

Incoming transactional attorney. Will be licensed (hopefully—July bar taker) in a non-UBE state. My firm has offices in almost every major city.

Do I need to wait 5 years before being able to waive into states to become licensed there, in case I want to leave my current state? How does that work?

Any ex point b consultants or current with knowledge willing to share diff exit opportunities after Point B?

Hey guys… I hope you all are fine and doing well. Can anyone please refer me for Salesfore developer position for total 3 years of experience and 2 years of relevant experience into Salesforce. Immediate Joiner. It would be a great help !
TIA !!

Any thoughts on asking a hiring manager to speak to one of his/her employees without the manager being present to get a good feel for the culture?

Hi all,

How many days will it take to allocate Bosch laptop for new lateral joinees?

Hi Fishes,

What is the market salary range for a Banking and Finance sector(Temenos UXP) developer with 5 years experience and if willing to switch how much can he/she can ask for?

Obligatory financial info post. 1) size of firm, 2) billable requirements, 3) salary, 4) bonus, 5) quality of life, 6) debt, and and 7) family/married/single. Go!

My VP is a zaddy. Needed to get that off my chest. 😮‍💨

Uhh… I was looking for that one confessions channel. I digress,
I’m an intelligent guy with strong technical aptitude but limited experience. I’m resourceful.
However, for my first staffed assignment I was placed as a developer in the middle of an ongoing project in the development phase.
I have never used the technology they’re leveraging, nor embellished my resumé in any way to mislead them into believing I had.
Anyways, they just assigned me a task and I’m lost af.
Help?

Ugh just got diagnosed with trich. I'm married and I don't feel my husband cheated. I'm not dumb..
Totally bugged his phone with spyware. Have seen NOTHING to suggest cheating. Plus he never goes anywhere without me 🤣. However I'm like how the hell would I have gotten it?! I haven't to slept with anyone else. So conflicted!