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Move away. And I’m not even playing. Black women who have had unhealthy relationships see their brothers or sons as pseudo husbands. Make yourself out of sight out of mind. They are determined to undermine you, your family dynamic and this narrative that you are demanding and controlling is them projecting because you don’t allow them to demand and control him. I would be looking for jobs elsewhere and when I get an offer I’d be like, “babe I got this great opportunity let’s discuss”. These women will never change, they will never accept you and they will never respect you.
No cap, my husband is latino and his family is always throwing events and the expectations to attend all of them was getting out of hand. We moved states and my life has been so much more peaceful 😂
How does he feel about this? He knows his sisters so he should have some ideas and know what a realistic outcome could be.
I’m not saying he shouldn’t tell you what his sisters say about you but playing telephone with a family often causes more drama than it’s worth.
Lol calm down. It’s just an app.
That's exactly why they're not married 😅
If it is not a problem for your husband, I wouldn’t give it much thought. I agree with your family dynamic.
This is a problem your husband should see fit to fix.
I would ignore them. They don’t know what it’s like being married.
I don’t agree with moving. You’d be running from a problem and letting them run your life. Wild words are going to uproot your life?
Control the controlables. You can’t control what they say, do or think. You can control how you respond. Are you and your husband on the same page? Is he telling you these things? Tell him you don’t want to know and sorry they feel that way but that’s how it works in your family! What are they gonna do? Talk more ish? Who cares. Let them.
If they’re rude and nasty to you, tell your husband you don’t want to see them again/until they change their attitude. Let him go see them by himself.
You’re caring too much what they say and think. You should listen to Mel Robbins podcast when she talks about the “let them theory”.
I agree to move far away. It helps lol holidays only
Ignore them. Crabs in a barrel.