My practice director just met with me to go over firm development and she also added comments about how “vibrant and social” I was 😂

I truly feel like consulting has given me a different personality and/or I just really am an extroverted introvert

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I get it. I’m a solid introvert but consulting has definitely taught me to turn on my « social side » as needed. I can be outgoing at office events and then turn off once I shut down my computer/go home. This still takes more energy for me than it does for other people, which is part of differentiating between intro/extroverts.

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Yes, this. The energy draining aspect is what always gets me. This is why I’m perfectly content with my remote life bubble nowadays

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Maybe you’re in the wrong bowl.
Or she’s an even bigger introvert than you perhaps?

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Growing up I’ve been the biggest introvert. Consulting has made me have a “work personality” for sure

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