My third week on a project and I just... know it’s not for me. I’m miserable, overwhelmed, and feel really destined for failure. This is a huge project with super high visibility and I just don’t want to do it. Seriously considering taking a leave of absence.

like
Posting as :
works at
You are currently posting as works at

There are probably some larger questions worth exploring. But re: your current project, communicate early but from a position of wanting to make it work and wanting you and the firm to be successful. Understand why you were seen as enough of a fit to be part of the project, clearly understand expectations, what good looks like and identify people who can support you. I think we have all felt overwhelmed on a project or two+ before. In my experience, sometimes it’s about pushing through, sometimes it’s about increasing my confidence and sometimes it’s about creating a net around me to help when I need it. There’s nothing wrong with LoA, but I would identify whether it’s a mechanism to help you run from something or if you need the mental break for your wellness.

like

What level are you OP? Have a honest conversation with your PM,analyze what’s causing the anxiety? Lack of skills? Client? Etc..if it’s skill then the team can cover and PM can coach you till the point you are up and running(though it may be too short) ,if it’s the client not your problem,escalate to your PM/partner..get to the root of the problem..

Also, the first few weeks are usually the worst. Do you think the issues will stop as you get more experience with the client? Can you set a goal for where you want the project to be in 2-4 weeks?

I was on an intense project for three months and it wrecked me mentally and even physically. Get out of it if you can after two month mark. I got an MD to pull me on another project and vouch for me. Also, don’t be afraid to take a leave; I know people who did that to escape a shitty project. Your health matters way more

It’s a major tech implementation, and I don’t have background (or interest) in this area. The transition between me and my predecessor was short and rushed and I know the clients won’t care about that (nor should they). I really just want to roll off, but I have no idea how to do so without a million pitchforks (one or which will come from my counselor). This is my third project since I joined this firm 2 years ago and I have never felt like I belonged here

Related Posts

Looking for remote healthcare roles that I can operate from Southeast Asia during a gap year (I am a dual-national). Flexible with anything that allows me to build on skills like project management, analytics, PI/QI, and anything else among the delivery of care. I will be a recent grad with internship/project experience in healthcare strategy roles. Looking for ideas, referrals, or just a chance to connect 😊

like
like

How Can we changed the Project in Wipro.

When you get stuck on a design or when you are starting a big project, what are your creative processes? Do you look at colors? inspiration? Pen and paper? Illustrate something? Want to work with my designer on a toolbox of steps to pick from to find what works best for their individual creative process? I know my creative process is look at inspiration, pen and paper, then start designing, but I don’t want to assume that’s theirs too.

like
like

Giving notice tomorrow. Accepted another offer. Nervous to tell my boss because I know I’ll be leaving them screwed but I’m miserable. Love my team. The client is stupid and the work is soul crushingly uncreative. But still feel guilty :(

like

Are there any books or other resources that mid levels/seniors/counsel/partners on here have found helpful for the project management / managing junior attorney aspects of your job?

I am not finding a lot of stuff written for lawyers specifically , but there is a lot directed at “managers” in business generally that I imagine could be applicable.

like

In the beginning of the month I started working at a new place for a promising client, but realized the team is absolutely disorganized and no one is willing to do much. I haven’t gotten onboarding from my team and no one takes notes... is it bad to start looking again?

like

What are some of your “schooling the client” moments?

like

Hi Guys,

I have an OL from LTI with a CTC-20 Lpa..As my mother had brain surgery, i need to be with her. i have asked HR to provide WFH. Does LTI support in these kinds of cases?? I have also asked HR to set up a call with the Project Manager.

Comments pls ..

like

How do you folks describe your deals in resume/ interviews/ LinkedIn while stopping short of naming client/target? If you describe the acquirer and target, it’s pretty easily traced to the exact deal.

like

What is the hiring process in Coforge. 2nd round done on 22nd Feb for Santander project. Consultancy told mail for documentation will be share by HR, but no mail received yet. Any idea how much time it take?

uplifting

Hi friends, how much variable payout we can expect at Hitachi Vantara on an average?
Please comment on HV's project pipelines, job security and work life balance (data engineering track)

Thanks..

Wipro folks any body aware about nomad foods europe UK client in data analytics space?

like

Can we change project in Capgemini?

Hey Fishes,
Been working at D India as a Manager (Not USI) for past few months.
Ask me anything as there are very few reviews available online.
To clear few misconceptions
1. Global projects are available here
2. They've started mentioning Bonus, Gratuity amount etc in offer letter
3. Work life balance depends on Project and managers you work with
4. Inside opportunities if you're the creamy layer
5. PF amount in offer letter is the total deduction and not just company's contri

Other can add

like

I am the president of our school board at Franklin Country School Corporation in Brookville, In. I would like to start a NASA Stem project starting in school year 2022-2023. Does anyone know where I need to start?

likehelpful

Joined Wipro on 27th October. It's been 15 days, no on from project has reached out to me nor any contact given, what is Wipro doing? Also is Wipro calling people to office?

like

got email some days back. “We are pleased to have you join us at IBM and I welcome you to the IBM Client Innovation Center”. is cic different than gbs? where are our locations in india?

like

Is it good to join as project manager in hcl with 12 yoe?. My top priority is for job security and wlb.

More Posts

Do you text your SO when you’re out drinking/partying? Do you expect them to text you?

like

Hello Guys

Do anyone have referral for SAP ABAP consultant/ developer
YOE : 2.8
current CTC ; 6 L/A
Location : flexible to relocate anywhere

like

How can one overcome anxiety when presenting?

like

How about job security in wipro?

like

Does anyone else's firm use dictation phones? I have to use them so our secretaries can enter in our time but I cant stand it. Feels like i'm a lawyer in the 80s or 90s...

like

Just want to say this is such a thoughtful bowl. Great responses, lots of questions on self improvement, sharing of resources. Love UX guys #empathy

like

Any idea when is the noida office starting to function?

like

Hi all NICE interactive solutions is hiring for various positions. Anyone interested DM me.

Post Photo

Just to be 100% clear, this entire platform is anonymous, right?

likefunny

Hello folks,

Is Anyone deployed to client location samsung from HCS, could you please share your experience about the professionalism, ethics, work life balance & culture in HCS-Samsung client location ?
Thanks a lot for your input

like

Married men of this group,
What advice would you like to give to the younger generation who are single/about to get married?

like

Any books that you found very helpful to read as expecting parents? We’re just nine weeks along, but would love to start preparing however we can!

like

New year checklist for amex plat, CSR, Delta, and AA? :)

like

Can I simply upgrade from Amex Blue Cash Preferred to Amex gold? Or would both just be open at the same time since one is technically a charge card?

like

Is Operations paid the least at your respective firms? I was hired to a Client Service Delivery role with a heavy focus on project management. I regularly interface with leadership internally and at the client. But, I am aligned to the “Operations” capability and make the least of my teammates who perform seemingly identical work but are aligned to “Strategy and Consulting.” I worry I’m on a career path to being paid the least wherever I go, because Operations is in my title and background.

like

Tax senior with CPA at small firm. Best way to get to Big 4 audit? (LA or OC) Went to non-target so little to no alumni at B4. I don’t mind the switch to a lower title since audit was always my preference and was never a fan of tax (stayed local for family).

like
like

#Need help Fishes
Have recently started learning Azure DE through videos (purchased Udemy course - Amit Navgire). But unable to understand much. Even if I am able to understand, just forget it the very next day (like steps to create linked service to storage or Data Lake account, etc..)
What should I do to understand it in much better way ?
Note: Have past experience in data analytics and little bit in Data Science

Hi everyone, I am working towards a career shift into management consulting, specialising in Strategy & Restructuring services to be specific. I am looking for a referral to a T2 firm within the Middle East if possible. Would love to connect, learn from your experience and take your advice on how to successfully land a role in the industry! (Currently based in Dubai)

like

Additional Posts in Consulting

Senior in Chicago making $95k. What salary increase can I expect for cost of living if I move to San Francisco?

like

I'm trying to buy a bigger than normal whiteboard for my home office: any recommendations?

like

CLT is freaking disaster

like

In your experience, is "Going above and beyond" rewarded by your company? Or is it taken for granted?

likefunny

Anyone have CFP Prep books they don’t not need anymore?

likesmart

1st gig as a lead. Different team lead set up time with my analyst to give unsolicited ‘coaching’. Analyst left the meeting in tears. Tips for how to to have a constructive convo with the other lead?

like

Which consulting firms are hiring for experienced Associate position? Have a friend who got laid off and looking for another job.

like

Anyone have good book recommendations that I can learn from and are entertaining? Trying to survive a 10 hour flight this weekend 🆘🆘🆘

like

What firms (consulting and industry) have good medical benefits? (Using BCG's as my baseline for good)

like

Signing up for Equinox full price (no corporate discount) worth it ?

like

We need the ability to filter politics... getting real tired of the same old conversations bubbling to the top...

like

Plural tutoring session anyone? Looking to do as a weekend job. Current target OPs are "Has there been layoffs" and "What's your thoughts" but happy to expand.

like

Any book recommendations on handling office politics?

like

Do any of the top consulting firms hire into the Engagement Manager level after an M7 (if they had manager experience elsewhere)? I know MBB probably doesn’t but what about other tier 2 firms after that - and asking for US or Canada

likehelpfulfunny

Work drinking culture help please: I come from a family of abusive alcoholics. Both granddads died from alcoholism related health issues. I am the only person in my family without an unhealthy (cont)

like

Where can I buy big four swag?

funnylike

A first for me, after 1.6 million miles. Thankful for a delay. The delay on the connector saved me a night at ord Hilton after the ludicrous delay on the first leg.t. Truly grateful united

like

Does McKinsey New Ventures sponsor people for MBAs or not?

like

Bench time done right:
Camper van + cell signal booster + (nearly) unlimited battery power + National Parks pass = gorgeous “home office” views

Post Photo
like

Anyone know if firms do a post hire employment check? Left my firm a couple of months back cause i had another offer in hand 2 months out, did some other jobs in between but that wouldnt be disclosed

like

New to Fishbowl?

Download the Fishbowl app to
unlock all discussions on Fishbowl.
That was just a preview…
Sign Up to see all discussions
  • Discover what it’s like to work at companies from real professionals
  • Get candid advice from people in your field in a safe space
  • Chat and network with other professionals in your field
Sign up in seconds to unlock all discussions on Fishbowl.

Already a user?
Login here

Share

Embed this post

Copy and paste embed code on your site

Preview

Download the
Fishbowl app

See what’s happening in your industry
from the palm of your hand.

A phone with Fishbowl app

Scan your QR code to download
Fishbowl app on your mobile

Download app

Sign up for free to view this conversation on Fishbowl

By continuing you agree to Terms of Use and Privacy Policy

Already have an account? Log in

Sign up for free to continue using Fishbowl

By continuing you agree to Terms of Use(New) and Privacy Policy(New)
Messaging rates may apply

Already have an account? Log in

For account settings, visit Fishbowl on Desktop Browser or

General

Legal