#OFF-TOPIC:

Need your valuable advice. I am 26M and working in IT field and from past few years I feel like I am left alone, no one cares and I am cared only because of money. No one to share or express feelings, it is just like a routine eat, work and sleep. Most of the times I feel like I need a companion and hence I approached my parents indirectly asking them when are they getting me married but the reply was harsh, mom was like keep 15 lakhs for sister marriage and after her marriage only

Any books that you found very helpful to read as expecting parents? We’re just nine weeks along, but would love to start preparing however we can!

Anyone in the suburbs find it harder to make friends compared to the city? I don’t want to move back but I don’t know what else to do..

I know the general answer to this, but I want to know others response.
If by your 30’s you’re mostly established in life, why is it then harder to establish a long lasting relationship with someone ?

Best Christmas things to do with a two-year-old?

Just got divorced after being separated for a year. Any suggestions for places to go and meet new folks?

Would you recommend Sedona during Christmas or San Diego during Christmas with a 1.5 year old? Entertainment, safety, meaningful experience-focused.

Sedona will be much colder, possibly snowing/icy and will be hiking, hot tub, enjoying the scenery focused. San Diego will be beach, enjoying scenery focused. Both Airbnb options look beautiful. Will also have 60 year old grandparents joining

Does anyone think that it’s wrong to just not need a lot of companionship? I have an SO, decent family members and I guess a few friends. And I really don’t feel the desire to surround myself with peo

Any other ladies get so frustrated by forced family set ups? I swear I only hear from my extended family when it’s about set ups and my marriage status. And usually it’s just them praising the guy and telling me to make it work since I’m getting old (early 30s) 🤦🏽‍♀️

I’ve been a family caregiver for four years, and now look to return to the workforce. I realize that this will be a bit difficult, especially during these economic conditions, plus other factors, such as being an older employee, etc. I updated my account with a few job sites, adding on the fact that I took time off to care for a family member. I would appreciate some advice, anything that would be helpful.

Important question! Any strategies for getting out of work zoom happy hours? Other than ignoring requests and not showing up, which has been my MO so far. But it’s getting a bit awkward.

Do you share details about raises/bonuses/other financial gains with friends or do you keep it to yourself? I have a few friends who will tell me everything from how much money they make to how much their husband spent on them for their bdays to how much their parents make?? To me that feels like bragging/being arrogant. It’s also the way they say it, feels very much like seeking validation to me.

My SO adds very little to our relationship. She has a dead end job. I cook. I work. I oversee finances. I plan trips. She doesn’t have a voice in the relationship. I’ve asked her to give her perspective but she always defaults to mine bc she thinks I’m smarter/worldly. She feels intimated by me and my social circle. Lately, I’ve found myself thinking for her. Anticipating her wants and needs and then adjusting my behavior to meet them. Which she appreciates but it’s frustrating 29M 27F

I’m (early30s) about 8 months into a relationship with a 40m. Things are wonderful in every aspect, but he is absolutely atrocious with his finances. I felt it becoming an issue about two months ago. He forgets about auto payments and just generally doesn’t care. I sat down with him and looked at everything and even after talking it out he still continues to stress and it’s now causing me stress. I had a final discussion with him today about it and he went on abt how love isn’t enough for me…

My gf and me call each other everytime we have free time. However lately she seems disinterested in phone time. She never initiates calls anymore and she tells me she wants to hang up in the middle of the day and not right before bedtime. We live a 4 hour drive apart. And I told her this is like living together from a distance, because I put her on the house speakers. What can I do to keep her engaged?

So I want to marry a physician (girl) as they make good money so I get a good life plus decent retirement. Is it selfish to marry someone for money???

Opinions on career clerkships? Especially with a two year old and wanting another child eventually.

So my fiancé and I are having a microwedding in Rocky Mountain National Park next year, and we’re working with an elopement planner.
She sent over a sample ceremony (intro, sweet poems + passages to be read, and example vows), and we read through it last night. I was reading it out loud while my fiancé made dinner, and it just hit me that this is really happening. I’m just really happy that I found someone who is willing to take a vow to spend his life with me and I’m so excited for that day :)

I've got some friends who work remote jobs, and every day I grow more jealous of them during my one-hour commute.

My SO just started with PWC Australia. I might have to relocate to the states in one year. Will it be possible for my SO to relocate to states as well through PWC at around 1 year mark? Does PWC allows that just after/within one year of joining? Assume she'll get L2 through me, if that matters.

How many jobs can you apply within Google if they are similar functions but for different teams or locations?

Hi Friends, i attended 2 client interviews and both went wrong. I don't know what to do. I am new to EY GDS......Is anyone faced the same ?

Can someone recommend who I should contact to for a position at Johannes Leonardo?Thanks!

Happy Wednesday everyone. I'm so excited, I have a recruiter call scheduled with @Meta for Administrative Partner position. I've been in my current employer role for 19 years and I'm nervous as heck. I haven't had to do an interview in so long. Can someone please tell me what to expect with the recruiter call? I'm assuming it will be mostly about the role, my skills and background? Do they ask salary expectations? I have no idea what to say for the salary question. Feedback appreciated. Thanks

I’ve worked for a medical consultant company in Houston the last two years doing various things from billing to patient care to even doing medical records request. I have been looking for a job preferably where I can put my masters in healthcare administration to use but most of the jobs I went to apply for I qualify for everything but the management and supervisory years.

Hi All,, Has anyone joined UST - PTEC (equifax) company recently for pune or other locations? Can someone please provide review of the same. Thinking to join the same on 30th dec.

Please respond.

Does anyone have suggestions for what a salary should be for a Digital Marketing Analyst | Paid Social & Performance Media? I have 1 year of experience, the job asks for 0-1 year of experience. I feel I over meet the qualifications in some areas and just meet them in others. The recruiter said 50k is the salary the company is offer. I know I can negotiate. What are your thoughts on what the salary should be?

Anyone have wrist guard recommendations for weightlifting? I have small wrists and they don’t love a lot of pressure.

Does TCS offer stock as part of bonus ?
Can employees (associates) purchase TCS stock?

Real Talk: Is one time cheating (and not a long-term emotional affair) a complete dealbreaker for a long relationship (10+ years) / marriage with kids? What is the SINGLE thing if not the time or kids together would make you forgive your partner in such a case?
I mean something like the „I went out with the boys/girls, had a drink too much and there was this guy/girl“ kinda situation. Im looking much from the perspective of the „victim“, and NOT the cheater

Negotiating an offer with MBB. How should I negotiate for unvested RSUs? I have about $400K with a vesting schedule over the next 3.5 years. Thank you!

My brain and body have decided that my long weekend actually started today instead of Friday 😊

I got offer letter from Virtusa. I never heard about company's name. Can anyone tell me about company? Work culture or WLB
I have another offer from IBM of 19
Virtusa giving 24 lpa
Choosing virtusa is over IBM good or not?

Is having 40lpa for 11 years experience is common? Got an offer from opentext for java lead role and wondering what would happen if recession hits? Kindly advise

How is dating in Jax? Apps seem to suck. 26M here trying to date or just to make new friends

Fitbit vs. Google Fit for tracking workout and health stats. Why?

How often do people upgrade their house? Is every 3 year too slow?

How much does a biomedical bench tech make in Toronto area?

Looking for 2bhk/3bhk near marathahalli or Brooke field and a flatmate(preferably Telugu)as we are 3 pre decided and rent range is 20000-30000

Hello, looking for a Shared Flat near Jayanagar, JP nagar, BTM Layout1/2 HSR Layout. Anyone looking for a flatmate please dm me.

Looking for female flatmates for 2bhk flat nearby Bangerghatta Road, New Gurappanapalya-BTM Layout 1st Stage, Bangalore - 560029.

Please DM soon.

Need one spacious and semi furnished or furnished 2 bhk flat in BEML layout, Brookfield. Please suggest if there is any information.

Hello Guys,

I am new to Bengaluru, my office is at Bagmane Solarium City. Now staying in PG if you are looking for male flatmate nearby let me know or any person looking for flats we both can look for flats.

Male - 24 Yrs old

Area - Kundalahalli Colony, AECS Layout, BEML Layout, Brookfield

Thanks in advance!

I have been working in Software testing fead for 5.5 years and have 16L ctc planning to switch to development is it a good time or how it my past experience help or will be drawback? Any light on this?

Looking for flat/flat mates near an electronic city where I will be shifting in the 1st week of November. If anyone has a vacancy or is interested in joining with me kindly reply in comments

I am looking for 1 room in pre-occupied 2/3 bhk Flat.

Or 1Bhk or 1RK ( in case of any lead)

Or ready to hunt flat with 1 or 2 person.

Location : - Koramangala/ Adugodi / HSR Sector 7 or in 5 km radius of forum Mall.

My preference: VEG , NON Smoker & cleanliness

Hey guys, is there anyone (female) living in Marahathalli or Whitefield and needs a flatmate(female)? Please reply. Will need to shift in the mid of December.

Hi Fishes,

Can someone suggest me some good PGs around manyata tech park.

I am looking for accommodation in Banglore HSR layout or near by location. (1Bhk,semi/fully furnished)
Any leads
(What would be tentative charges for maid incl. Cooling cleaning n clothing)

Looking for a female to share a 2bhk in Indira nagar. Found the place today.. Reply asap.

is AC required in Bangalore?

I am looking for a 2bhk near bagmane constellation park anyone who wants to rent a flat together feel free to reach out.

Hi Fishes,

Need 11 likes to send DM

Please support me to get it

Hi all,
I am working in IQVIA near sarjapur-marathalli road and planning to shift by october end, please suggest me affordable pg/flats nearby

Hey All,
I am planning to rent a house in Marathalli/Brookefield/Kadubesanahalli
Budget - 25k
Which platform should I look after for a good gated community house

Looking for 1 BHK for family in near bellandur area, any lead will be helpful.

What would be a good accomodation near Mahadevpura area with good schools nearby. I have got an offer from HP Enterprise. Need to shift to Bangalore. I am very new to Bangalore, almost know nothing