So I want to marry a physician (girl) as they make good money so I get a good life plus decent retirement. Is it selfish to marry someone for money???

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You can definitely limit the women you date to ones who have high income potential. Women have been doing that with men since, um, forever.

Just make sure you actually like her and you are aligned in financial and life goals before marriage.

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I’d recommend getting completely jacked before you attempt this.

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All of a sudden it's selfish if a guy does it 😂

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M1 nah I've seen it applauded if a woman marries rich. Never seen it so the other way lol

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Who says she is gonna share

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That’s a good question, probably I should think of some kind of agreement🤔🤔🤔

Yes.

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Yes

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It’s not selfish, it’s stupid ... presuming you want the marriage to work and you want to stay married.

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Yes, and these women do not marry to make it work or for love. If you’re just after money, go for it!

I think it’s a good plan. A girl I used to work with did this for years and finally landed a Dentist. I’m currently dating a doctor. Use the apps, filter for the ones you’re interested in. It’s nice because dating someone who’s really intelligent usually makes life easier. I’ve found they’re more reasonable. In the past I had dated several girls in marketing or whatever and way to many of them were just dopes with zero life perspective. Intelligence is extremely important for me. They’re more likely to be better with money and just make better day to day decisions (diet, exercise, better spending habits, etc.)

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My wife is a CPA as well, albeit “retired” now with our kids. I couldn’t agree more.

When I was younger I dated for one reason only. Had a lot of fun but dealt with a LOT of shit as a result. Not a single one had half a brain.

When I finally got annoyed with all the nonsense and started focusing more on the whole person, dating was a much more pleasant experience. Don’t get me wrong...looks are still important...but there are plenty of good looking, smart people.

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Money aint gonna make her pretty

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Money makes anyone pretty. Just look at celebrities’ pics before and after they made it.

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Nothing wrong with that. Only issue is why you think the girl will marry you, or you deserve her? Not talking about money here, but about that attitude of taking free handout without working hard to get it?

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Are you attractive? Tall? In shape? Kind?

Yeah.....they do not make as much as you think. You have higher earning potential as a Big 4 Partner. Good luck.

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My gf makes 3x what i make but we met in college before salaries were a thing and have loved each other since.

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A lot of successful women may want to give up working to be a stay at home mom if they could afford to.

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How do you find one?

Dating sites or friends referrals???

Nah. People do it all the time.

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