Ppl who got married in COVID with itty bitty or zoom ceremonies — how did you make it feel... “big” enough? Not in attendees or $ spent, but life significance. (Cont’d)

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I got married non-Covid with 4 guests. We had a gourmet dinner out, and took a weekend honeymoon. We’re not any less married 23 years later. This was perfect for us (and yeah, I’m the chick - I did not miss the hassle of trying to make a perfect day for others too). Think about what things make you truly happy and just do those things. And the things you’d do because someone else expects you to? You’ve got an excuse to not do it now.

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I didn't get married during covid but I did the traditional wedding route pre covid. There are times I honestly wish we would have done something smaller , more intimate, more just us. Don't get me wrong. I loved my wedding day and memories created from it. But If I could redo it today, I would get myself a FAB dress and do a tiny ceremony in front of the most badass backdrop (old building with significance, grand tetons, idk). I would invite 10 ppl max. We would do dinner and fancy drinks from one of my favorite most expensive in town restaurants. And I'd hire an expensive photographer to follow us around all night. I might then plan a larger backyard gathering with slideshow, beers, bbq for my larger crowd on a later date.

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LOVE the idea of a little personal paparazzi for the whole crew/night 😍

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A friend of mine got married in their home with one witness. They had everything except guests (no zoom). Bridal gown, hair/makeup, flowers, decorations, candlelight, first dance, cake, professional photographer. It honestly looked super romantic and beautiful. It is part of their story. If you’re getting married during this, lean in to some unique element you would never otherwise do vs try to replicate it online where it can’t measure up. You can always have a one year anniversary party or reception later. Don’t try to go big, go small and make it super intimate. A good story for later.

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We had a small ceremony w 10 people. I think part of what really still made it feel momentous is we did the whole shebang - dad walked me down the aisle, exchanged vows, etc. We didn’t wear our dress/tux bc we still plan to have a party later but I still feel every bit as married as I thought I would! I think it helped that we also took the week off after and sat on the beach doing nothing :)

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Late summer 2020 wedding, just my immediate family invited. It was early in the day so we had small bites and I bought an expensive bottle of champagne. Splurged on a fancy wedding cake, flowers and a photographer. It was wonderful and felt very special.

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I think weddings of all sizes serve an important cultural purpose of recognition and a tender/happy collective nudge into a new phase for the couple, and while I want to be married asap to my partner it hurts my heart to think of it like “‘kay our names are on a paper and friends sent screenshots of funny faces, back to work tomorrow”

I have to agree with all the folks on this thread. I had a beautiful mid-sized 60-person wedding a few years ago. I, too, also had a videographer, photographer, decked out floral arrangements and cake, beautiful gown and makeup, nice venue, and fun memories with the wedding crew. But, having invited distant family members of the in-laws and friends I barely knew, I ultimately felt like I was robbed of the intimacy I wanted. Not everyone there was really enthused to be there. Even going back through wedding pics of people on their phones during the ceremony or seeing some asleep during our reception, or just not really sharing it with only the people who mattered, I wish I could do a do-over and have a more intimate getaway with our closest friends and family - at a beach, with a nice celebratory feast and drinks.

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