Question for unmarried girls (i.e. No ring). If you're flying Southwest, do you deliberately avoid sitting next to the well dressed solo guy for fear he might try to hit on you?

Not at all. And usually that guy is 1. Married 2. Engrossed in his apparatus 😆

Reality check: anyone and everyone will hit on you. not just that guy. so it's a gamble no matter what. :)

^ Well for 'anyone' and 'everyone' to hit on her, she has to be attractive along with being not married :)

Well realistically the well dressed solo guy isn't going to be the one hitting on you. It's more likely to be the middle aged father of four or the balding dude with a paunch.

Why do you avoid being hit on if you're single?

Nvm the Key Question here is: what can that one guy do or say to get your positive attention? Although this is placed in a comical way it's a very serious question, to which a proper answer will indeed be the best tip said in this whole app.

There's no formula for this really, as this really boils down to each girl's attitude and "trigger" for positivity. I'll respond favorably to a gentleman who makes a comment about the book I have in my hand or something that shows me he's eyeing the details. Even if it's a part of his "game" it shows some level of ability to connect.

@Booz Allen Hamilton 1 I completely agree. If a gentleman is paying attention to what I'm doing and what my mind is fixated on at the moment, that shows me he might be interested in something other than my looks.

This went from a "how do you avoid getting hit on" to a "how can I as a man effectively hit on you" post. And that is sad.

I don't understand why you think that's sad. Expressions of interest, attraction, youth should be appreciated. I'm not saying people should be hitting on each other all the time but learning to express your attraction for someone else in a healthy way is the least bit sad.