Really struggling today. Consulting is so lonely. Random hookups are fun and plentiful but afterwards, I just get more lonely alone in my hotel room. How does everyone deal with constantly being alone

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Have regulars and get to know them a bit better, if u click. Grab a drink at hotel bar before u hookup. If u like them, let them stay over a few times. Been doing this for a while and made some great friends w benefits along the way in every major city in the US

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Agree with SM1. Sex with a hookup is even better 2nd or 3rd time, more personal. Unless he snores

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I fill the void with work and really good books

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Read Velvet Rage. You’re stuck in the first phase of homosexuality

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Therapy. Friends. Enjoy single life. Find a partner who also has a significant career.

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That was my path!

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yah, you snore, you out

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