So I (male) wore a short sleeve polo shirt to work one day last week. Today I get a call from HR that a female coworker reported me and was really distressed bc she could see my nipples through my shirt.... continued

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Jesus Christ. People need to get over nipples. Everyone has them. The people who are uncomfortable are the ones that need to deal with their own issues.

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Omg!!! If she was distracted by your nipples then SHE has the issue not you. Tell HR that you feel sexualized and would like to lodge a counter complaint.

This is the most ridiculous thing I've ever heard.

I'm female btw.

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I was going to say the same thing - turn it around and say that after thinking about it, you feel victimized by her specializing you. That is so absurd (F here).

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