So my ex from 10 years ago called and apologized for being an ass. He spent over an hour going through details of our relationship and sincerely apologizing. We’re obviously much older now, but I’m just so cautious. He wants us to date again. Have y’all ever heard of something like this?

Have you been able to spend more time with your kids during the pandemic? How?

How do you manage a long distance relationship? I got engaged 3 months ago and my fiancé and I live in different cities. I just can’t stop thinking about her and feel horrible there on.

My gf and me call each other everytime we have free time. However lately she seems disinterested in phone time. She never initiates calls anymore and she tells me she wants to hang up in the middle of the day and not right before bedtime. We live a 4 hour drive apart. And I told her this is like living together from a distance, because I put her on the house speakers. What can I do to keep her engaged?

Have you walked away from somebody you loved? And why?

What's the hardest part of being a working parent in law? My wife and I are considering trying to get pregnant.

What are some signs that you should break up with your partner? It’s been my longest relationship in years, and she is my best friend, I love her and care about her (cont)

Anyone raising desi kids in the US? What are are some of your fears?

So who here visited the Chicago Yacht Club at Open House Chicago and decided they wanted to grow up to be an old white guy? 🙋🏻

I had someone from school flame and unfriend me on Facebook because I said jobs are the best way to help someone go from low income to self-sufficient. And this was after I had her child in school and was told I was a great teacher.

Do you think you and your significant other should have similar personalities? My significant other and I are doing long distance and I feel like when I FaceTime with him, I emote more and show interest by asking more questions but from his end, he doesn’t always have a reaction or just nods, and it makes me feel like he’s uninterested. On his end he sees it as he’s comfortable.

Anybody willing to help a broke kid out with some mock interview prep?

For parents with school-age kiddos (kindergarten up), what do you do for childcare? Thinking about giving up our nanny, but worried about juggling days off, sick days, and summer break.

Here to tell you guys that each of us mending from either leaving a bad relationship or having some leave us: things are going to be amazing for us! I believe if for myself and I am so happy! And meeting new people is FUN. Laughing with friends and being yourself, away from all the drama, pain. Liberate yourself by deciding this breakup is your evolution into your best self!

How can I make friends in Chicago?

What do you do when your lifelong friends get married, have kids and disappear to the burbs or wherever and you’re single, lonely and gay?

Why doesn't my wife get that it's just me and the great dane now. She making this awkward wanting some room in the bed.

Hadn’t noticed this sub before, and most of the threads are old so thought I’d ask a follow up - how has everyone been handling parenting with public accounting? I’ve got a toddler and my wife is an accountant (industry), and we only have a few immediate family in the country- but they have health concerns. Busy season was rough, things are looking better now as things return to normal. Still working crazy hours if you count the daycare duties on top of utilization targets.

I hate that I still want to hear from him. I just have no idea what I want him to say or what I want to say. I feel like if I get anywhere near him he’ll be able to sense my pain. Are we sure the no contact rule is only 21 days? I feel like I need 21 months.

What is the historical practice for EYP members getting an MBA (FT or Exec)?

Best PR firms for digital agency?

Hi all,
Will an offer made in paper by one organization get revoked if a counter offer from other organisation is submitted to negotiate a better salary?
Also need an advice on should i submit the counter offer even if i prefer the first organisation only to improve the salary which is less as offered now?
Please share your thoughts. Thanks!

Made it through the mothers, fathers, and in laws Christmas parties without any fighting, drunken yelling, or political discussion. Best Christmas gift of all.

😳😳 I’m out on PTO next week, and it’s the first time I’m not taking my laptop home with me. It’s making me anxious but I’m taking all of your advice and leaving it here!

Looking for a bingeable show that's not too serious. An easy watch type show that's only ~30 minute episodes... Thoughs??!!?

Free transportation to/from sap sdc from any location of B'lore to all employees ? Is it true or some hidden charges/any condition ? Please advise

Best areas to live in if have to commute to DTLA two days a week and partner has to travel to Riverside next year? Ideally we don't want to move twice. Hoping to not have longer than 1 hr commute with traffic in either direction. Please be kind I know LA traffic is horrible- I don't need a lecture about how bad it is lol

Who has the best M&A Tax Practice ?

Vacancy for graduates in internal audit PwC for specialist level. Exp - 2-3 Years

Does anyone else struggle with being a freelancer while also being a natural leader? I always feel in freelance roles that they would prefer I just shut up (even though my ideas have been praised and implemented plenty), esp within my own dept. In a full-time role, taking charge is expected, but I'm feeling like I should just sit back and take orders vs trying to be proactive or having thoughts in a freelance role.

Hi Folks,
I am working for NetApp Client, Bangalore however My base Location is Hyderabad, and I have heard from a couple of NetApp Employees that they are planning to resume offices by May.
My questions are:
1. If UST is planning to bring employees back to office?
2. If they call will I be asked to relocate to Bangalore as my client's location is Bangalore or will I be working from Hyderabad only?

PS: My manager has left the organisation and I am the sole person from UST in my project.

Hi All,

I would like to know the process of PF withdrawal in CTS, please help.

Any fish in Boston ?

What’s everyone’s age and location? I’ll start. 28 NJ/NYC area

Checking in, how’s everyone been? Let’s revive this bowl! We need this space for people of color to be to ask questions and connect with other likeminded people .

Hey hey, my fellow black LGBT sexy mfs 🏳️‍🌈

What is everyone getting into Memorial Day weekend?

Can we come up with a fire name for this? Black LGBT is cool but we’re the flavor the straights could never taste.

Any suggestions?

New member here. 27 black male in the Philly/ Jersey area. Just want to say I’m glad I found this group because I started to feel like an outcast on Fishbowl. Lol. I’m here to support. I’m open to chatting and making new friends! 🙂

What is the “safest” LBGT 🏳️‍🌈 City 🌃, to buy a home/settle down? I have lived in San Francisco, and open to Atlanta or any other cities.

Thoughts on having a baby 👶🏾 with a surrogate in West Africa or the Caribbean ? Also looking towards Mexico.

Any M up for a chat?

Hi fam! Taking a poll- are you out at work? To everyone or just a chosen few?
And bonus- do you know other Black LGBTQ folks at work that are out to all?

Fiancé and I are thinking about taking our honeymoon in South Africa. Any thoughts, suggestions, or tips from the glumoja??

I need some good black gay af inspo accounts to follow on insta, any suggestions? I’m bored with the usual ⚪️ instagay archetype and I’ve decided to reach out to my glumoja fam🖤🤎