Started a new job this week — 5 weeks before my wedding — and I’m so torn on whether to take a honeymoon. During my interview process I was forthcoming about getting married in April (especially in terms of taking a honeymoon). However, now I’m feeling really unsure on whether to take the week off or not? Is it too soon? Or will I regret it if I don’t take the time?

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Marriage trumps work. Every time. Honeymoon.

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Will you regret going to work or regret going on your honeymoon now? I think the answer’s obvious.

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Take the time!

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I took a vacation during week 2 of my job - they wanted me to start, so I said I would do a week and then go away. Life doesn’t stop for new jobs, and you’re fresh enough that you can still refer back to those conversations.

I'm taking three weeks off 4 months into my new job. I told them about it and said I'd join after my wedding if they couldn't give me three weeks. They made an exception for me. Just take it, especially if you already worked it into your initial offer.

better now while you’re still learning and getting a feel without much responsibility than later when you just start taking on work on your own and immediately dip. if you gave them the heads up while interviewing and they still hired you you’re fine

Congratulations on your new job and upcoming wedding! It's understandable that you're feeling torn about taking a honeymoon so soon after starting a new job. It's important to remember that taking time off for your honeymoon is a personal decision and ultimately depends on your priorities and values. However, I would suggest discussing this with your employer and seeing if taking time off, possibly unpaid, or using any available vacation days is possible. It's always better to communicate and plan than to surprise your employer with a sudden absence.

Take the honeymoon. YOu will regret it if you don't.

I would take it for sure, it's just a week and you're not going to miss anything crucial IMO since it's so early

I'd take the week off if I were you. You don't want to regret anything if you don't take the time. Good luck!

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