Tonight is hard because tomorrow I will be attending a funeral for a former student. He died by suicide.

5 years ago I read him Magic Treehouse books.

I remember how excited he was to meet his behavior goal for the first time.

I was hoping to see him in 2 years at the HS.

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I am sorry for your loss. I know this will weigh heavily on your mind for years to come.

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I will never forget this feeling.

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How are you feeling today?

My condolences! I’m praying for you and his family!

This is so hard. There are no good words for this tragedy. I’m so sorry. Sending you comfort ✨

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