What do you think about coworkers who bring their baby into every zoom meeting? Inappropriate or no?

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Are they chilling or distracting?

One of my favorite meetings of all time was my client having his infant son sleeping on his shoulder while I delivered a presentation, and all the client’s questions coming out in very gentle dad voice

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Babies do wake up, that’s a fact

To be fair I would rather see the baby than some of my coworkers

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I'm fine with it, I'd hope that people were kind and understanding to me if I had kids right now. My mom used to take kids to her job interviews because she couldn't find childcare so sometimes you just gotta roll with it

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Lol us when we were little. We didn't have any childcare options sometimes, especially if it was the summer, so we would go and sit outside the room and wait for her. It didn't happen often but a few times and they were always understanding

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I’d rather have a baby in a meeting than a baby unattended 🤷🏼‍♂️

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I love kids. Sounds cute. I also would feel really bad for the coworker. Literally no parent wants to do that, it means they're really struggling to figure out childcare.

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This is the right answer. I’ve been there countless times over the past 2 years, and I can promise you that parent doesn’t want this, and the baby definitely doesn’t want to be sitting shotgun and not getting mom or dads full attention. Sounds like a childcare struggle, and it is miserable trying to work and replicate the job of being a full time caregiver all at once. I was lucky to have empathetic coworkers when I’ve struggled through periods like this, and I’m sure this person is hoping for a bit of the same…

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Suggest going camera free if it’s distracting. Stuff happens while you’re working from home but we should respect the time of everyone in the meeting.

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Good answer!!!

Every meeting may be a bit much but people bringing their kids or pets onto zoom is always the highlight of any meeting

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This is pretty much it.

People should be empathetic that sometimes it’s hard to get child care. Doesn’t mean that the person should take advantage of it by doing it constantly rather than figuring out child care.

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Who cares?! Seriously

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That's weird. Who is watching their baby?

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EY 1….it was edited. They originally wrote “I don’t think they have children” opposed to “I don’t think they have childCARE” hence the joke.

Had to be there I guess 😄

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I think they’re likely embarrassed and struggling. Work is hard, parenting is hard, doing them simultaneously is next to impossible. There is an actual childcare crisis happening right now and parents are doing the best they can. I assure you they don’t enjoy baby joining the meeting either!

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I think it’s completely fine and normal, my senior manager always did it.

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I think it’s inappropriate. I had one colleague who would have her kids running around and disrupting her during our team meetings. I also have kids and would make sure that they were not disrupting me during the meeting, even if that meant me locking myself up in a bathroom to get privacy!

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Definitely not good. Had a SM who put her screaming baby literally born a couple months ago right next to her mic. Great for my ears.

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Why is this SM back at work only a couple months after their baby was born?! Sounds like a $hitty company.

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Pre-planned meetings with adequate time to prep (either materials, or childcare, or both) have fewer babies on camera than last-minute, spontaneous, ad hoc ones.

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OP do you have children?

Lol this is funny.

Depends how distracting. A no if it’s detracts from a serious conversation but ok if it was a informal meeting that does not need any specific outcome

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