It’s a man’s market these days. Men, what tips do you have to give to ladies to increase our likelihood of entering a successful relationship.

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I think this might get more traction on the Black Consultants Bowl.

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Make eye contact for 7 seconds with the man you want to come talk you. We’ll come. 😏

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Find marriage role models and learn what it looks like to be a wife

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Think with the end in mind. If you want marriage express that. If you want a relationship express it. Try not to leave things to chance.

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Just be 💯 comfortable and cool with yourself. When you are, others will be too.

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Read your Bible to understand your purpose and what God expects of you. Being in a relationship when you have a solid foundation will allow you to make wise decisions.

And… get a Godly counselor. Good luck 🍀

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