Why does a partner never look me in the eyes during long or short conversation? However, I observe that the partner looks at other people’s eyes. Not sure what I’ve done or something wrong with me.

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We’re both male.

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Maybe the partner likes you and it’s too hard looking into your eyes!

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I went out to dinner with two male partners and a male client the other night and they sat us at a table that had 6 chairs. They sat so that I had an empty chair on both sides of me. I told them I didn’t have cooties. I’m female.

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It could be poor social skills. I grew up never looking people in the eyes. In the US, they sometimes say I am bored of the conversation because I look away. Now, I try to look people in the eye but it feels aggressive to me. Anyways, long story short, most of the time it is about them and not you. You just feel the unintended consequences.

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Maybe he’s done something wrong to you that you don’t know about? Also, are you a female and he’s possibly a male? (Or the opposite)

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Whether he likes you or not, that is so rude. Is it possible this person just has poor social skills?

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Most likely he is very intimidated by you

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Worked for partners who multi tasked, on phone texting, computer while talking to you etc. Rarely made eye contact. Rudest thing ever. Oh but don't do it to them .

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He has a man crush. Awww

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Ah, interesting. Maybe he’s gay? Or he doesn’t like you. Or he’s intimidated by you. I had a female manager do the same thing. I think she just never liked me. It was so odd because she did it from day one.

I think he doesn’t like me.

Perhaps you have to earn his respect. If you feel like you have than it is his loss.

He’s probably autistic

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