Wife is sick with stomach bug and 3 yo down with fever and cold. The house is literally melting down. How do I block and tackle? Any words of wisdom

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When this happens, my wife and I go into “survival mode”. This means laundry, cleaning, and any other house chores get punted in favor of sleep, rest, and hygiene. That’s about all you can do.

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^ VP1 is 100% right about survival mode. Bedside manner matters a lot too and helps to keep everyone calm.

Take sick leave/PTO if you can. Prioritize your own sleep as much as possible just to keep up your energy and mood. Outsource cleaning and anything else if possible.

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In keeping with the analogy, take a delay of game penalty

Lysol spray everywhere!

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