Would you tell your new boss if you have a chronic illness? I don‘t want it to define me, but I also don‘t want to be ashamed (and I need treatment now and then, although it doesnt affect my job)

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None of their business but if it impacts your schedule, the thing you can say is that you're handling some personal things that HR is aware about and that if it interferes with work at times, you'll let then be aware.


You don't need to share anymore beyond just being respectful of their time, and your privacy

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I don’t. None of their business.

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