Going through a lot of mixed emotions. Almost feels like my anxiety levels are on the rise. I used to think I can manage stress very well, but that belief seems to be fading away. I am diabetic as well and don’t see much point of working hard as I have in all my life so far... and just feel like living alone and going somewhere in the darkness. Anyone else facing similar issues?

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I did but gratefully made it through the hardest part. When my anxiety was its highest, I self medicated and had a prescription. I know the feeling you're describing. Its dark and lonely. There is hope. I'm sober and I'm seeing a counselor. I learned that I can work through anxiety without mind altering meds or substances.

Thank you S1
How did u find help.

It didn't feel like it at the time, but help was all around me. Only after clarity returned did I see how much assistance is out there. It seemed impossible then to even find 1 hour once a month for a counselor but now its a weekly appt. Stressors become smaller and lose their power when I verbalize them or write them down. I also reached out to my state's lawyers assistance program, which is confidential. Mental health discussions are becoming less taboo, and I learned others in my office and profession also have anxiety. The main thing is: none of us are alone. Setting the appt to see a counselor that first time was oddly difficult, its like I was admitting defeat. The truth is, that was the first time I demonstrated strength and it built from there.

Thank you again S1

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