32 M Los Angeles. Indian. I like going on walks, trying different foods, and traveling. Hope to get married sometime this year, iA. If you are interested let me know.

When I dropped my kids off at daycare this morning, the car next to me had a #milflife car tramp stamp, and I have just so many questions.

Slept with my ex last night. We were drunk and it was just like a reversion to the mean or something. Broke up 6 months ago. Now all confused and wistful and frustrated with myself.

female here...I feel like quarantine is driving me crazy and I’m looking for a distraction. Recently married but I don’t feel that sense of completion...I’ll admit I’ve always been one to stray but now I’m looking for an outside comfort more than ever. But even more so on top of that I think I’m struggling with feelings of being bisexual and never properly exploring it

Here to tell you guys that each of us mending from either leaving a bad relationship or having some leave us: things are going to be amazing for us! I believe if for myself and I am so happy! And meeting new people is FUN. Laughing with friends and being yourself, away from all the drama, pain. Liberate yourself by deciding this breakup is your evolution into your best self!

One of my coworker's sons that she brought to work with her yesterday: "Mom, what you do doesn't make any sense" 😂👌🏽

Does anyone have feedback or recommendations on robo cleaners in India? Thinking is sending one to family. With lockdown mom getting tired of cleaning by herself.

Getting over heartbreak and having a full time job is torture lol. My boyfriend and I just broke up after almost a year of being together. It was such a beautiful relationship but ultimately he just didn’t love me. I love him so much. My mind knows that I deserve reciprocal love and I’m worthy, but I feel physically ill. My body hurts, my stomach is in knots, my head hurts. How is it that I have to mend a broken heart but also meet my billable hours lmao

My last therapist keeps coming up in my mind. I left her when I moved to a new area before COVID dug in and frankly it felt like leaving a girlfriend. She also disclosed in the final session that she was a member of AA and knew several of the people I occasionally discussed from the rooms. Her knowledge of the program certainly built trust with me early on, but it has been two years. I discussed it with my current therapist but she’s still in there. Any advice?

So much baggage brought into the relationship. 2 years in and just discovered a whole lot more. Its been mentally extremely difficult and it’s changed me as a person. Just venting but feel hopeless and I know my SO is suffering. Wish there was a solution but I’m losing hope

Just discovering RSD after being diagnosed as an adult. I feel like SO MUCH of my life has been impacted by this and I just never had a name for it. At work if someone gives me negative or constructive feedback it can feel like a punch in the chest even if I know it's not personal. Makes romantic relationships so hard too. What do you do to handle it especially at work?

How to leverage personal connections for personal gain?

I am a 2nd year and my spouse is a higher up in engineering in big tech. He has some (but not a lot of) sway in outside counsel and could make some intros to in house counsel.

My firm will gladly use my connections for their own gain, so I’m making sure that if/when this situation comes, I take full advantage of it.

Looking for tips on short term and long term strategy.

When you not in a relationship and you have relationship problems. Maybe I'm supposed to be a consultant for life 😞

I know this isn’t a marriage therapy bowl, but my husband has a really terrible tendency of saying things like “you’re being really mean” and completely shutting down during a disagreement when i objectively am not being mean, just truthful or vocal about how i feel about something. It’s a really convenient argument for him because it enables him to either be the victim and me the villian, or forces me to concede my stance and not reach a true resolution. Any tips on dealing with the irrational?

I feel like the people on my flights to and from XNA and in XNA every week are starting to become family ...

How do you balance your social life with work? I feel like all my non-law friends are out doing shit every night and living it up on the weekends and I just can't. I'm either working or I'm tired from working. How can I set better boundaries about working outside of work, and where do y'all get the motivation to be outside after work 😭

My anxiety has been relatively constant during this whole wfh covid situation so I haven’t been wanting to be intimate with my partner as often. They said its bringing down their mood, any advice?

Been having trouble moving on since girlfriend ended relationship 3 weeks ago after 2+ years of dating. Before ending it she came over 3 weeks prior to basically give me a chance to work things out and we had a good discussion but then I went back into our routine and didn’t really fight for it or have serious follow up convos that we needed. Now I just have so many regrets that I let her go. I know we still love each other and left on “good” terms but can’t forgive myself for my lack of action.

Pakistani people-born and bought up in Pakistan. Anyone married to an Indian muslim girl or guy?
How different were cultures?
How did your folks and extended family react?

My gf and me call each other everytime we have free time. However lately she seems disinterested in phone time. She never initiates calls anymore and she tells me she wants to hang up in the middle of the day and not right before bedtime. We live a 4 hour drive apart. And I told her this is like living together from a distance, because I put her on the house speakers. What can I do to keep her engaged?

Any expats here face pushback from your family for moving to a different country? They always try to shame me for moving so far away around the holidays...

What’s the standard RTO (return to office) plan for MBB as of now?

Hello Googlers - I have a Business System Analysts interview coming up really soon. Any last minute advice that I can use?

Technically, I'm not a college student anymore because I just graduated in December. I am having trouble finding jobs within my field (Communications with little experience in marketing). I've gotten plenty of interviews, but none of them have made it past the first formal interview (phone screening then interview). Any advice?

How is Christmas like your job? You do all the work but some fat guy in a suit takes all the credit.

Hey guys, any GCP TAM’s here. Just wanted to get a feel for the job, what does your typical day look like ? Is it a role you enjoy ? I’m a consulting M 10+years. Love working with clients and doing innovation using tech wondering if this would be a good role.

I have over 12 years in B2B sales/sales management experience along with a graduate degree. I am wanting to shift gears and I am at a point where I can invest time in myself to learn through practical experience. The new industry I am wanting to pursue is real estate investment. I have read all the books but want some hands on experience on the property management side. How could I best leverage my skills for a role in this, and what should my expectations be for negotiation in compensation?

Hi Fishes,

I will be joining Cognizant in January as a Sr Associate.
Yoe -7.4
Tech stack- Oracle Apps DBA

How are the projects here and will I get project allocation once I join ?
As I dont want to be in PDP.
Also even after getting offer I got many calls from different HR teams for the same openings, so I assume there are many projects.
So kindly need ur guidance please.

In cgi what are the shift timings for a tester ,?
#cgi

Happy Navratri for everyone who is celebrating!!

Hey there, does any one know which Digital/marketing agency giving out EPs currently?

Guys!!! I'm so effing annoyed. How do you guys even access office email on your mobile phones? I recently joined TCS and man I'm so pissed. Why don't they just allow us to use the Outlook app. This makes me furious damn. 😭😭😭 😡

Are there any good movies or novels that show skill development - like follow through? Self-management? Money management? I read a lot of self help books so I know a lot of the theory, and books peppered with examples help, but I feel like most 1 paragraph examples don’t five justice to how hard it may be to change a behavior.

My mom’s friend was supposed to come to my wedding in a week and just cancelled. I’ve never met her but my mom insisted she be invited. This person already sent us a check which we deposited already; we already sent a thank you card. This person left me a VM saying they were sorry they couldn’t come; they have leukemia and their Dr. didn’t approve. Do I need to call them back? I would like to avoid an awkward phone call about personal matterwith a stranger but also don’t want to be insensitive.

This last week of overnights in the ED felt longer than usual...things feel like they're getting really bad again

Do OPTUM gives reimbursement for broadband installation?

I got offer as Associate (Technology) from pwc. Can I extend my joining date for 3-4 weeks?

29M, Indian. Grew up in the US. Looking to meet someone in this group, iA. Let’s talk.

We should have a WhatsApp group created for this group? That would be helpful.

Oh boy if young folks can’t find love here then I am just doomed lols

28F ..metro detroit. African. Hijabi/turban. Open to any and all races. Dont drink or smoke. Mostly eats halal. Prays. Opn minded and adventurous.

Looking to settle down! iA

Salaam. 26 M. Houston. My hobbies are traveling, watching sports, and hanging out with friends. Hope to get married this year, ان شاء الله.

How’s it going?

32M
In Sydney, Australia
Nationality: Australian and Pakistani
Religion: Sunni
Profession: Strategy Manager
Hobbies: Hiking, Rock climbing, Travelling, Reading Fantasy fiction, Politics and Self-improvement

Looking for someone from 25-31. Don't care about ethnicity. Practising Muslim. HMU

Is this bowl still active?

27F, Midwest, looking for someone raised in the states/Canada ideally, practicing Sunni, don't drink/smoke, non-hijabi. Lemme know if you're interested or know someone that might be!

27M Syed Sunni Indian. Born in 🇦🇺 , 🇺🇸 for ~20 yrs - Boston based (dual citizen) . Can cook and clean, athletic (when I want to be). Sometimes smart but mostly dumb. Prays / fasts but also likes Drake

31M, looking for my partner in crime, if you are European/middle eastern/american, career driven, family oriented, have a great personality and want to grow in your relationship with Allah & plan to stay in the US at least midterm, hit me up or put in a referral :) probably asking for the impossible here.

29M based out of Chicago, originally from India. Looking for a Sunni Muslim. Moderately religious, don’t smoke or drink & eat Halal. Hobbies include running, playing sports and 👨‍🍳

29F. Willing to relocate anywhere in US/UK or Canada. Looking for someone practicing, open minded and seeking a serious relationship. Happy to chat to see if this is a mutual match.

This should be a good way to get us started, and it's CUFFING SZN PPL !

(Jokes aside insha'Allah we will meet our target of one successful engagement out of this)

27F, Pakistani, Northeast US, open to relocation in the US but strong preference for the Northeast

Hijabi, no drinking / drugs / tats, pretty moderate in religion (just basics)

25 F in NYC. I was born in the US and raised between US and Middle East. Looking to meet people :)

28F here, Sunni, Desi, located in the Midwest! Looking for someone practicing but also with a balance of Deen/dunya. Also ideally looking for someone taller than 5'8

28F, Pakistani, willing to relocate within the US. I don’t wear hijab, don’t drink or smoke, do eat halal. Like baking, running, and am kind of a prankster. US born and raised.