34 M Pakistani, based in SoCal, liberal, openminded, looking for a moderate or liberal Muslim F partner in life. If anyone is interested in chatting, do let me know 😊

Hi all,

There is guy living near my place and i find him really attractive. And sometimes I come across him in the gym. But I'm not sure if he likes me or not. How to handle this situation?
Any suggestions?

Question that could belong here or in the Relationships bowl:

How do women prefer to be turned down if the guy they’re pursuing is not interested. I know men have the capacity to deal with rejection poorly, and I’m not suggesting otherwise. But in my anecdotal experience , women take the gentle “no thanks, not interested” poorly.

Anyone else’s love life so DRY that you find yourself having a crush on an older man at work who is in senior leadership? I keep it professional, but I feel like I’m doing something so bad by having this crush.

Men in your 30s and 40s - what is the number one quality you're looking for in a woman? I like to think I'm compassionate, intelligent and independent (as much as any other woman), but I'm still struggling to find dates. I would say I'm attractive, and I take care of myself pretty well. What am I doing wrong?

Any F in nyc wanna hang out this weekend? 30 M here.

Any tips for hard launching partners on social media? For context, I’ve (Indian American female) been dating my white American boyfriend for 3 years and we just got engaged after two years of convincing my parents. They are very happy and excited now, but I’m scared shitless about being ostracized / judged by my extended family and Indian community in the US once I “let the cat out of the bag” on the engagement news. I want to be proud and confident about this but could use some moral support.

I’m 30. My friends’ weddings are piling up and I’m just... still very much single. Feel like it’s acceptable in NYC but also sorta depressing. Dating is hard.

NYC 🐠 Anyone try the dating app MOTTO? Any good?

Out with friends in Long Island, where the cute single men at 😝 (we are females)

How do you casually date? Recently moved to a new city I didn’t know anyone in, met 2 girls I like and have gone on a few dates with but not sure I like them enough yet to like commit. Is it wrong to go on dates with both until I figure it out? Not sure what to do, getting into relationships makes me feel trapped and unsure for some reason

What do you do when you meet someone who absolutely loves some bollywood movie you find cringe. Help 😒

Single 29 M. Any single female from Kolkata?

What is dating during corona like? Is there any etiquette I need to be aware of? I stopped dating when the pandemic started, and just recently rejoined a dating app and have a first date this week. I know we both go outside and socialize with friends and neighbors (I’ve been careful and selective, not sure about him) so do I assume it will be like always?

So hard to date while being a consultant. Any luck fellow fish ?

Woman I went on one date with keeps me informed on what she's doing. I.e. Seeing her girlfriend or on her way to a birthday party. Not used to this level of transparency after just one date. We do have a second date planned. Thoughts?

It’s official that after 7 years I am now single in my late 30s…. Moments of excitement and moments sadness come and go. 🥂

Got asked out on a date. After I agreed he ghosted. It’s been 3 weeks and he just texted “Hey, sorry for the delay. I’m down to hang out anytime.” Is it even worth replying?

What are some of the cringiest/funniest things you’ve seen on a dating profile?

I’m one of the only attorneys in my Texas firm that had electricity, internet, and water this week. I was warm and comfortable but still could not get any work done because things going on in the outside world are distracting. When I try to work, I feel like I can barely hold a thought in my mind before I get the “wait, what am I doing again?” feeling. I just want to know, I’m not the only one that struggled this week to do any work, right?

Forensic tech vs non tech..go!!

Do you have any new years resolution? Want to share?

Recently decided to purchase a hair removal package for my face. They use Candela lasers. Can anyone attest to the effectiveness of this procedure?

Hi All,
May I know the designations hierarchy in BA continuum?? especially for band 6 (levels before AVP & VP)..
Is work from home available before Covid or any plan in future may be??
And if no bonus what will be the average hike percentage every year..

Thanks

Anyone who has started up a side hustle whilst working in consulting - is it generally a good idea to let your employer know or will they make your life difficult/try to push you out if they know?

(Context - I need the extra income to have a shot at affording grad school, I work for a small boutique, job contract was ambiguous on the issue. Side hustle is selling stuff I make as a hobby on Amazon)

Thanks!

Can anyone please share the experience to allocate the project after joining. Experience in Java backend. Is there any tips to allocate project before joining or after joining. Thank you. @

Is there any specific payscale for each corporate grade band?

If I’m buying something online, like a camera or binoculars, is it unethical to order two competing models so I can try them out side by side and keep one with the intent of returning the other? Really tough to compare when trying to avoid physically going in store.

What type of drug test are they going to do?

Curious how people manage health/exercise schedules if you are working pretty much the whole day?

If you could (somehow) have dinner with someone - historic or contemporary - who would it be?

Transitioning from line of business familiarity (understanding financial statements) to... real(?) Finance (bonds and cap markets and other debt sales) any advice on books or resources to learn really from step 0?

Hi, What should be the salary for 9 yr experience in azure devops ?

What is your typical class size for your shop class? Do you have a maximum?

28F here, Sunni, Desi, located in the Midwest! Looking for someone practicing but also with a balance of Deen/dunya. Also ideally looking for someone taller than 5'8

28F, Pakistani, willing to relocate within the US. I don’t wear hijab, don’t drink or smoke, do eat halal. Like baking, running, and am kind of a prankster. US born and raised.

27M Syed Sunni Indian. Born in 🇦🇺 , 🇺🇸 for ~20 yrs - Boston based (dual citizen) . Can cook and clean, athletic (when I want to be). Sometimes smart but mostly dumb. Prays / fasts but also likes Drake

29F, Texas. Willing to relocate to anywhere in usa or Canada. Seeking someone mature, stable, family oriented. Open to chatting to see if its a mutual match.

Example post:

24F,📍Carmel IN, willing to relocate within US only, Sunni

Wear a niqab/don't eat halal/don't drink/do shisha/have tattoo etc

32M
In Sydney, Australia
Nationality: Australian and Pakistani
Religion: Sunni
Profession: Strategy Manager
Hobbies: Hiking, Rock climbing, Travelling, Reading Fantasy fiction, Politics and Self-improvement

Looking for someone from 25-31. Don't care about ethnicity. Practising Muslim. HMU

27 F, Indian, Sunni Muslim, In USA from last 6 years. Works at Deloitte.

Open minded, eat halal, non-smoker, non- hijabi. Love to travel. Pray, Fast and give Zakah on regularly.

Willing to relocate anywhere in USA.

Ramadan Mubarak Everyone!

26 F, 🇮🇳, Moderate Sunni, open minded, eat halal, non-smoker, non- hijabi. Love to travel, sometimes a bookworm, nerdy. 😅

This feels weird but why not give it a shot🤷🏻‍♀️
29F, I have an MD and an MBA. Pakistani, Based in Toronto. Ideally someone Toronto based would be great.
Decently religious, prayer and charity are a big part of my life. Got a good balance of deen and dunya. Looking for someone who’s open minded, educated and emotionally mature. I’m fairly tall, so must be over 6 ft.

28F ..metro detroit. African. Hijabi/turban. Open to any and all races. Dont drink or smoke. Mostly eats halal. Prays. Opn minded and adventurous.

Looking to settle down! iA

28 F, Boston based Egyptian American (born and raised in the U.S. non-Hijabi, non-smoker. Plays guitar and works in tech. Easygoing and open minded. Looking for the same.

27F, Midwest, looking for someone raised in the states/Canada ideally, practicing Sunni, don't drink/smoke, non-hijabi. Lemme know if you're interested or know someone that might be!

34 F, looking for fun loving simple guy for something meaningful.

28F, Indian, decent looking, moderately religious, partial hijabi, NYC looking for a broad minded and easy going guy. Why is this so hard??

(F27) Realizing I might be a rare pokemon species ... any chance of there being Europe-based, shia (practising) candidates here?

27M, Pakistani, 5’11, Pakistani, Philly

Funny [looking] guy looking for girl for marriage

Must be kind, soft hearted, warm, empathetic, intuitive, creative, passionate, wholesome, have ‘practical life experience’

Random keywords: Muslim, Sunni, plant dad, socks and sandals, Pakistani food > , laying in parks, overanalyzing movies and music, collecting credit card rewards points, Spotify playlists, long drives

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