Anyone else feeling like they are past their prime and just don’t matter anymore? Like I could vanish and it may take weeks before anyone realized I was missing (and yes, I realize hormones are making this happen),

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Went on lexapro for anxiety at work. terrible side effects and weight gain. iquit my job and moved to start a better lifestyle eith less stressful work. Seems to have resolved the anxiety and sleep problems!

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Are you me? Same story last year. Lexapro is not a solution. It creates more issues.

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Aww. Hugs. I’m still single after being divorced a while, businesses has been hurting since covid, and I had cancer and went through hellish treatments this year. But no. My baseline mood is better than it has ever been. I feel I found peace in middle age

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I’m sorry about your health issue. How did you find peace? I’m single, no kids in my 40s and makes me feel very sad and lonely

Yes, I can relate to a bit of that. For me, I’m wondering if hormone treatment is more effective than antidepressants for my on setting Menopause… My newer Rx makes me feel like a zombie. Or is that more meno? It’s tough to decide what to do about the moods.

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Basically everyday of my life and considering I haven’t met my professional goals I feel worthless.

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I blame imposter syndrome and being constantly exhausted for now….

Sometimes but mostly not. I have a lot of knowledge to share at this point.

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Hi ladies- i am 45 and pretty healthy- I am on my second irregular cycle! ughh- is this how it all starts? Wonderinf if i need to make a dr appt? do they just tell u yes its perimenopause and send u home? Otherwise, no issues with irregular cycles, cramps, hot flashes etc.

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It’s in the middle of the night so the perfect opportunity to share my story. I was diagnosed with MSH6 Lynch Syndrome in 2017. In order to be proactive I decided to get a full hysterectomy 3 years ago. Because of this I was forced into surgical menopause. I started on Estradiol patches for awhile then moved to a topical cream now am on the pills. Initially Premarin but due to increasing prices I’m back on Estradiol. I don’t sleep very well, still get hot flashes, and experience highs & lows.

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Hello!! I was able to secure a speaker in February who specializes in Menopause and HRT! I know it’s far in the future but I told her I’d work with what is best for her schedule. I don’t know any nutritionists but will put out some feelers to see if we can secure a speaker in January. I wish you all a Happy Holidays and thank you for taking this journey with me!!

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