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Anyone here 40s never married, no kids?
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My wife believes these are man problems to deal with and if it’s not me, she will just choose a different man to deal with these problems. Ha ha ha ha.
Making a guess and think OP is fine bringing in the income. It's probably the fact that the spouse is not tightening the purse strings in this economic climate that has OP concerned.
OP what a terrible thing to say to your spouse, and smugly bragging about putting her down. Ouch.
My wife is the one riding my ass about reigning in my spending on all fronts.
I’m 100% the problem in this scenario.
Sounds like expectations were set early on in your relationship with your wife that you are responsible for bringing in the income. If so, perhaps you shouldn't be surprised by your partner's reaction?
This is common in relationships. One partner wants to save for the future (typically but not always the middle aged man) while the other wants to splurge a lot.
Humans are not reasonable creatures. You can try to use logic but it will probably just piss her off. I would just let her know that you want to put more of your funds in your brokerage/HSA (interested rates are good right now for HSA) and do so.
Let her get what she wants with her income. If she wants to put more in savings great. However, if you come off as her thinking you are telling her what to do with her paycheck you are back at pissing her off.
I meant HYSA although HSA is great too