Curious what % of partners/MDs have spouses who also work. And regardless of non/working spouse, what do you do to feel a work/family balance?

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My wife was at Accenture - we tried both working, but it sucked. We spent a fortune on childcare, dog care, laundry, cleaning - we basically outsourced everything. We tried for about 5 years - we had lots of money, but it was miserable

My wife stopped working, downsized everything - we are all so much happier

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My spouse also works and is a doctor. We both try to prioritize home time and keep pretty clean edges between work and home. Have only worked meaningfully on the weekend once in the last year as an example.

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My husband works. We are local and have family nearby. His job is more 9-5 which helps.

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Similar to BCG1, spouse is a physician. More broadly when I look across my practice group of 25 partners. I would guess, 5 or 6 of the partners have working spouses.

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