Anyone have tips for making remote work more tolerable when you hate working remotely? I worked full time remote years ago after my former company ditched its office post Covid. I hated it and got an office job, but layoffs are threatening to eliminate a good chunk of positions including mine. I feel I lined up a role I’m a great match for, but it’s full time remote. I’m considering taking it and working from coffee shops, but wondering if anyone else who doesn’t like wfh made it work for them.

likefunny
Posting as :
works at
You are currently posting as works at
Highlighted IconHIGHLIGHTED

Go to a coworking office. Build community there. Bonus points for whatever office perks you like - socials, coffee, industries you want to network with.
You might be able to expense the coworking membership.

likehelpful

I had to look up what this was, but this actually sounds great! Might actually be better than my current work environment since it’s people who choose to be somewhere rather than many at traditional offices who feel forced to come in. Found a space in area I quite like, so makes me feel a little more optimistic about my options.

likeupliftingsmart

I hated working from home until I actually built a solid home office to my specific needs. When I was just trying to be productive on my laptop at the dining table, it was awful. But when I made an ergonomic setup with the monitors and aesthetics that worked for me, I really started loving WFH.

like

I heard especially during covid transitions, that was the big thing for a lot of people. Going from desks and multi monitor setups, to folding tables and laptops wasn’t great. My set up is pretty decent for what it is, I just want to have the option of being somewhere since I get stir crazy otherwise.

like
Recent IconRecent

Seriously??? What’s interesting post. You are not interested in remote work? Who does that? May I ask why you are considering working from a coffee shop? Is it because you can’t set up work desk at home or is it because you live in a car or you are homeless?

But, if you have stable home why not save money and time.

I have never heard anybody who would rather put up with hours of traffic and long commute every day ( gas cost$ money too !!). I am confused because you post as sr. software engineer. What kind of software engineering requires you to be physically present in office?

Aren’t there plenty pf remote productivity tools that can facilitate collaboration meetings with your colleagues, teams or developers, clients or customers without being physically present on the site? I hope you find what works for you. But remote should not be an obstacle to getting your work accomplished.

likefunny

I highly value the clear demarcation between my home and work life. The travel time (which is about 20 minutes as worst] gives me my time to decompress and "leave work behind." I am one of those that doesnt like the work from home mentality. I also value the face to face interaction... sorry, zoom/teams etc doesn't cut it... even at the office im in zoom meeting all the time, some with members that are all over the globe. That human contact of eating lunch together at break times, or the other face to face contact throughout the day is absolutely valued and appreciated. I actually enjoy working with my coworkers face to face.

Everyone is different, but to just be judgemental as "why would anyone want to work onsite'.. Everyone is not you. You value different things that others. Not that one is more right or more wrong, it just different.

like

Get a dog

Taking them on walks twice a day is a good way to set the start and end of your work day. Plus it’s a good conversation piece.

like

That sounds much more reasonable at least as testing the waters goes. Thanks for the suggestions!

like

Where is this company and where can I find a remote role for myself? I am quite the opposite. I’ll never work in an office again

like

Same.

like

The coworking space is a great suggestion. What are some of the specifics you don’t like wfh? When I went remote, I struggled a lot with some kind of routine and schedule, but I also know it’s just not for everyone, either.

like

I guess it depends on what you get paid.
If it makes you happy and productive and it’s money well spent.

like

I work fully remote and while I don't really dislike it, it does get dull. I have a schedule built up where I go to different coffee shops for lunch every day of the week and work a few hours from there, then come back home and finish working.

Getting out, interacting with people and becoming a regular has really made it something I look forward to every day.

like

Wait and find another in-office job and leave the fully remote jobs for those that want them.

Otherwise: if you're established enough to have a family, take the opportunity to spend more time with them.

You can also spend some time traveling, book a few Airbnbs in places you would like to visit and spend a few weeks working and exploring from there. The opportunities are endless with remote work. You seem to be stuck focusing on what you perceive to be negative aspects.

like

Take a more active role to socialize outside of work. Why not take the remote job and move to another place if you don't have a social life where you are? Work should not be the center of your universe. Join a gym or take a class at a community center or college to meet people. Good Luck

like

Honestly, that’s what I’m trying to get to. Work is just the only place I’m really comfortable talking to people right now. I wanted to work in office because I was hoping it would help me improve some of issues. Felt like it’s at least a little better since people won’t be too much of a jerk to you directly even if they think you’re weird, which I found helpful. End of day I need to work somewhere, I really just don’t want to lose any progress I made based on what job I’m working.

I am currently 100% work from home. New gig I start in a week is hybrid. What I do is go for a 20-30 minute motorcycle ride before and after work. I also go for three to four fifteen minute walks during the day if I have the time.

I’m looking forward to the hybrid, to be honest. While I’m an introvert, I like the background “hum” of an office.

like

I feel this. Most of my coworkers shifted to fully remote post covid so we ended up downsizing to a smaller office. I was super grateful not to have to work from home because it’s just not for me. I’d totally do a coworking space if we ever did shift to fully remote though!

like

I work in a industry that requires on the job work surveying it’s hot in Florida but it’s what pays the bills. I don’t know anything else. With that I reply you have a good job do what you have to, keep your awesome job.

like

I was not the best remote worker. I appreciated that my company offered me the option to work remotely instead of commuting to the downtown office. I decided to go to a co-working location near me and paid for it out of pocket. If you work with people you get along with who are also remote, you might plan to walk together for lunch or meet for coffee in the late morning. Whatever it is, seeing other adults and staying active always helps.

Many co-working places let you test them out for a day or even a week. In the Northeast, Staples offers co-working at a reasonable price, including snacks, coffee, printing, and a mailbox. Some also host social events.

likehelpful

AI is threatening to replace most software engineers soon. Probably a great time to start considering a different trade.
Definitely time to nurture a relationship with Jesus Christ since he will be returning soon.

like

I don't see this happening. You can search online and find lots of cases where AI has written faulty, and even junk, code. I did some testing with some pretty basic PowerShell code and AI returned inaccurate results and even gave me some GET-* commands that don't even exist.
This is a pendulum that will swing to one side for a bit, and will come back to center as companies realize AI isn't all they thought it would be. It will become a tool to create frameworks that then have to be proofed and corrected/modified by real people.
I suggest learning AI as it relates to your chosen profession so you are positioned to fill the gap of basically technical editors and proofreaders to compliment the efforts of AI.
Remember when people said computers were going to replace all the workers and no one would have a job? This is the exact same scenario.

like

There are remote coworking places. Discord has several. Students and workers turn on their cameras and sit quietly, working and studying together. Not talking, not gaming; just working. If you want to create an online working space, like a discord server, I would join it.

like

As someone with ADHD working remotely was a godsend. I've been a fully remote worker since around 2010. The office was such a distraction but I learned a home office can be just as much of a distraction.

I separate my office space and home space as definitively as possible.

If it's the para-social aspect of having other workers around you, perhaps look into something like body doubling.

like

Never eat alone. Try to meet people for lunch or coffee every day. It will shake up the remote isolation

like

There are 2 possibilities,
1. You need handholding to get your work done. If that's the case, remote work is NOT for you. Send me your job offer. I will get your work done and give you commission.

2. You don't like whoever lives with you, may be they are distracting you or just raising your pulse. If that's the case, get rid of her, you will be 2X productive.

like

I live completely alone and become a shut in easily. More time I spend inside, my thoughts about other people run wild and become increasingly paranoid.

like

I worked for over 20 years in what became as Remote. I started early so I could speak with European team and late to speak with Asian team. Stop for Lunch, don’t eat and work, take a mental break, 30 mins. Stop for breaks during the day. I would often go for a 30 minute walk in the afternoon, between meetings etc. to air the thoughts. I always enjoyed the extra freedom of working Remotely and probably got more done than being in the office.

like

Well...it’s not very popular these days to say you don’t enjoy working alone and in isolation... I come from a latin country, and to me the idea of being alone all day feels strange... life isn’t just about productivity, It’s also about spontaneity, mistakes, and even a little mischief.

I’ve worked from home for years and I do it well, but I still go to the office whenever I can, not necessarily because I’m more productive there, but because of everything else I enjoy... the commute, the people I meet, the coffee shops, the unplanned interactions.

Nowadays.. most people seem so comfortable with remote life that saying otherwise feels almost unnatural. No wonder so many Zoom conversations feel dull and culture starts to seem repetitive.

like

It’s odd that some people cannot understand not everyone likes to be remote. This is usually for those with no one at home or those where it’s chaotic with family there.

Personally I never want to go back to the office and will avoid it anyway I can because the commute sucks and it’s a challenge to go to periodic appointments.

like

Related Posts

Any Open position for Salesforce Admin with 3 years of experience?

Please help me to refer for the role.

Salesforce

like

Hi all,
I need your favour here.
Do anyone has job referral for Business Analyst profile?

About me: 3.4yrs of workex-
Worked as a Sales Manager and across sales-Ops. 75% Team management+ 25% Data analysis and interpretation
Want to shift towards more data driven role.
I know advance Excel and SQL fundamentals.
Last drawn Ctc: 14lpa fixed

Any leads/suggestions would be helpful.

Thankyou :-)

like

Hi , wanted to get some feedback on following position offer in New Jersey area
Senior Manager for pricing startegy
I have 4 and half years of related experience,Masters degree
Base salary offer at 150k, 21% SPI and 10% LTI
How much room I have for negotiation, whats the fair market rate for this level?

like

Anyone have any insight into Capital One’s Capital Markets analyst position? I have an interview for it on Friday. Recruiter says it’s entry level (which I’m okay with) and the description says it’s an IB position. I was unaware capital one even had an IB division?

like

Currently have Series 24, 7, 63,65

Currently work in a very unique Wealth Management ops role.

Getting paid 85k base with 40k in bonus plus about 35k~ in OT.

Money isn’t everything but in my late 20s it feels like the only thing important right now.

WLB is next to zero as 60hr weeks are the minimum as of late. Management feels like they are trying to push a few of us out. Was told not to expect much come year end for comp. Any suggestions on finding a new role/pay expectations?

like

Deloitte Tax is hiring experienced professionals at all levels. Depending on experience, you can be promoted during hiring process (i.e. Senior 3 getting hired as a Manager).

DM me if interested!

like

What type of questions are asked in Morgan Stanley for position of Senior Database Developer skillset in postgres , snowflake etc..Any leads would be much appreciated.

Favorite office chair?

like

Anyone know if the wellness subsidy would cover an office chair? Or does D cover office supplies or nah? Looking to upgrade my home office. Thx!

like

£200 for WFH equipment , what are you fishes getting

I’ll be promoted next year to senior but I’m in a niche role where I don’t see myself long term. Should I make a job switch now or should I wait to get promoted to senior? I currently have 1.5 years of experience.

like

Anyone know how long you typically have to wait to re-apply for a job at Big 4? Friend got auto rejected last month but wants to apply with a referral from me and new resume format

like

I am possibly going into a cyber security role where I would be leading internal and external content. Thing is, my career has mainly been in fashion which I am trying to move away from, to get into the tech space. This is a great opportunity that will definitely teach me a lot and help get me further into tech. Problem: I’m scared. I’m scared I won’t enjoy it, scared I’ll be bored!!!, scared I’ll fail, scared I’d be making a mistake. Any advice? Has anyone pivoted like this? I want to be open.

like

Looking for a referral in Google for the position of SAP cloud developer.

like
like

Have you ever applied to a lower level position and convinced them to just give you the title you already have? Is it just a matter of salary and if they can afford you/your title?

Is EY hiring Business Analysts / Business Operations Specialist/ MIS agents anytime soon?

like

Switching from commission to salary!

I’m considering a less sales-oriented role that doesn’t pay commission. The new role will have a higher base but lower overall earning potential.

What % haircut should be expected? As an example, if I make 100k (base + commission) today, would it be realistic to ask for 90k (10% cut) + equity to make up the difference?

like

Damn I miss my life before the pandemics (the home office part can stay, though).

like

what is the best way to move in-house from an agency SEO role? are there specific recruiters or strategies to find the roles that anyone has used?

like

More Posts

Anyone know anything about a vendor called Remesh? BSO or legit?

Is MBB serious about DEI? How is the environment for minorities (both at the bottom and top, including for East/South Asians)

like

Looking to get an Alfa Romeo Giulia Ti sometime this year. Brand new the MSRP is about 45K and despite the reputation of the old Alfa Romeo’s from the 90’s these seem to be night and day more reliable. Would you recommend buying new, leasing new, or buying used? If I bought used it would be anywhere from 2019-2021

like

Optum Hi all,do optum have insurance cover for pre existing disease like cancer@optum for employee parents?

like

So physically and mentally tired, I don't know how long I can keep up with work anymore. Told my senior management that I'm burning out, only to be blessed with another secondment. I now have two going at the same time, plus other client work, new business work, and managing scroundels.

like

Has anybody working in ubs worked from India being a ux designer. Is there a trick to it

Hi, need more likes and reacts for better reach and also looking jobs in Pune, MH, India for Software Testing.

like

Applied at Accenture and just finished the skills & behavioral interviews. Waiting to hear back from recruiter but today they reposted the exact job I was applying for, does that mean I didnt' get it?

like

Any PwC Labs folks here? Trying to understand first year director salaries and what the salary growth looks like yoy.

like

Let's talk money 💰

Why are there glass ceilings on salaries in NL?

Considering that cost of living has gone up significantly here, doesn't the market need some adjustment?

Is salary just a function of years of seniority?

I do understand the case of better WLB and social benefits than the US. Hence not a direct comparison.

Anyone who understands the market willing to share their take?

Thanks!

like

Will CSPO help in Product Manager role?

like

Accenture strategy C2 pay?

like
likehelpful

Relationship Banker(RB) does JPMorgan Chase Bank offer yearly raises in these roles?

like

I'm crazy petrified of overspending a significant amount over a client's media budget. Have you or your agency ever done this? By how much and how did your agency handle it?

like

How much variable pay and bonus is given by barclays every year

like

Looking fr a phone under 30K with good battery life and camera. Suggestions plz

like

Kindly recommend some self help books!

like

Interested in regulatory and statistical reporting in Pune, please suggest any suitable openings.

Additional Posts in Tech

Hello,
Is it a bad time to switch jobs , given the current market conditions ? Also, what are your thoughts about working at Meta ? It sounds a bit unstable to me, based on what I’ve been reading on the news. Thanks in advance

like

I've been interviewing with some companies, and now I have to decide between JPMorgan Chase and Globant.

Globant is more innovative, and has remote work. I will enter to work with a Sillicon Valley startup based in San Francisco. The tech stack is React, Nextjs, AWS, and a serverless architecture.

JPM is semi remote, and less innovative. The tech stack Java, SpringBoot and AWS. But I'd do more migration tasks, like dockerize projects and pass them to kubernetes. What would you choose?

like

Infosys Vs CVS which is better both are giving same salary $100k

like

Are FAANG companies really the place to be for SWE’s? I want to work for one but I’m worried about culture & work/life balance.

like

What have you found to be some of the keys to scaling succesfully, either in a business or a product or dept?

like

My company, Pegasystems, is agressively hiring for Senior Solutions Consultant (presales) positions nationwide. If you are interested in working for an amazing company with market leading products and a great culture, please message me. Happy to discuss further. Assuming you are reasonably qualified, I can provide a referral as well.

like

Does Coinbase send welcome gifts / swag to new hires during the first week?

funny

I can’t understand, why in the big tech: data scientist = software engineer?!!!!! It is not… and it is huge disappointment when you ask for data scientist who can improve your results that you are not satisfied with, but you design all your technical interview around SE

like

Question to immigrants with parents overseas. Anyone has experience getting their parents approved for tourist visa while immigration petition for parent is pending (I am US citizen, moms case is slowly moving and I desperately need her come visit). She’s had 15+ years on tourist visas but worry we’ll be denied this time due to “immigration case in progress”. Appreciate any tips and anecdotes.

like

Hey!

I am starting a job at
Capital One soon as a senior software engineer.

I was wondering if people enjoy working as a SWE at Capital One? I’ve heard good things, but am curious to hear what others think.

like

Are then any men out there willing to talk about imposter syndrome?

like

I’m based in Northern California and the last few companies I’ve either worked for or interviewed with don’t carry Kaiser on in their benefits package. If you’re reading this, does your company carry Kaiser? What company do you work for?

like
like

Hi all! Looking for some advice please!
I am looking to stir my career into a Project Management role. I have some work experience in managing IT Projects but don't have the title. Is working towards a PMP Certificate worth investing time and money in worth it or should I just apply for a PM role?
Thank you in advance!

like

I’m getting ready to begin negotiating for a new position. How much does an IT Process Consultant make in a healthcare insurance company such as Anthem or BCBS?

like

Hey everyone - I could do with some advice. Not sure what I am doing wrong, but I am having a hard time getting interview calls. I am trying to pivot from consulting to the industry and targeting project/program management roles. I have been doing this work for 7+ years now (total YOE 12 years) so certainly have the right skillset. I have tried a couple of referrals too but that didn’t help either. Any advice you guys could provide would be helpful. Thanks!

like

I was contacted by a recruiter with a job in the EV market, which is something I've been wanting for a while. Im at a comfortable point in my current position where I can do my job very easily, change would mean starting from zero again. What should I do? Any advise?

like

Question fellow fishes: How long do we actually think fintech is going to dominate? When it comes to substantial wealth, security outweighs convenience. Seems to me like people reach an upper limit with fintech apps before switching over to traditional banks and firms. What say you?

like

How long will the Salesforce hiring freeze last?

like

Anyone at Meta willing to help with a referral. Found a req Im interested in and would greatly appreciate the help!

like

New to Fishbowl?

Download the Fishbowl app to
unlock all discussions on Fishbowl.
That was just a preview…
Sign Up to see all discussions
  • Discover what it’s like to work at companies from real professionals
  • Get candid advice from people in your field in a safe space
  • Chat and network with other professionals in your field
Sign up in seconds to unlock all discussions on Fishbowl.

Already a user?
Login here

Share

Embed this post

Copy and paste embed code on your site

Preview

Download the
Fishbowl app

See what’s happening in your industry
from the palm of your hand.

A phone with Fishbowl app

Scan your QR code to download
Fishbowl app on your mobile

Download app

Sign up for free to view this conversation on Fishbowl

By continuing you agree to Terms of Use and Privacy Policy

Already have an account? Log in

Sign up for free to continue using Fishbowl

By continuing you agree to Terms of Use(New) and Privacy Policy(New)
Messaging rates may apply

Already have an account? Log in

For account settings, visit Fishbowl on Desktop Browser or

General

Legal