Anyone help support their parents small business? I often work with them on the weekends and work my weekday job at KPMG. Feeling burnt out but can’t say no to my parents bc they need the help. Looking for any advice.

And no I do not ask for pay, I help the business to provide free work for my family to save them money.

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Someone who understands my struggle. I don't have any advice but wanted to make sure you didn't feel alone!

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That’s tough OP.. would you have financial wiggle room to maybe hire a part time worker for them to cover the weekends? I don’t think working 7 days is going to be sustainable.. you have to take care of yourself as well if you want to take care of them!!

Good idea tho

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