Can someone tell me how gay cruising works in a steam room (ie equinox).

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Eye contact, followed by a subtle touch “down there” to see if it evokes a response. Works every time.

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While sitting in the steam room, pick up the front of the towel that is around your waist and wipe your face (and “accidentally” give a flash). That worked, a lot

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First, be fit

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Pics or it didn’t happen

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don’t

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I cruise at equinox in NYC regularly. I’ve gotten action 60% of the time. Lots has to do with timing. DM me if you want more info.

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Recommending SenCounc1 to lighten up in all regards.

Also Eastside club westside club? Yeesh it's not 1994 anymore. Do not even think of going to those places. If they aren't torn down...there is at least nothing inside but crackheads, hobos, nobody cute, why would an attractive person ever do that anymore? This advice is cringey and outdated by 20 years

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I try not to slap balls while nonparticipating folks are in there 😂

No bathing suit or workout shorts. Just a towel

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just because I don’t want to bring a bathing suit to the gym or wear my workout shorts into the steam room does not mean I want to be cruised.

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I was at a mixed pool club in New Orleans (The Country Club) (really nice place by the way!). Was in the sauna and this other guy (under 30, and I’m 50) started to cruise me, reaching down and touching himself in suggestive places. Right then, his straight female friends started shouting, looking for him. 🙄 sorry dude 🤣

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In your DMs

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What about Dallas Equinox ..

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I’m surprised this thread hasn’t already been reported and removed. But yes let’s keep it this way

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Self hate in 2025 huh?

Which locations are best?

does that place even have a working steam room? i thought it was pretty much just a gallery of private rooms.

Foot tapping and subtle flashing

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