Dating a guy whose perfect for me in every way but 1. He has a great family, great values, he's kind and I get along with his friends. He's very smart and capable, but because he comes from family money he doesn't have a ton of ambition. Idc that he doesn't work a 9-5 because that isn't my business, but it doesn't exactly turn me on when he says his aspirations are to be a landowner 🤦🏼‍♀️. Am I crazy??

Girlfriend of 3 years cheated on me right before we were supposed to leave the state and move in together. We broke up about 4 months ago. I couldn’t demonize her, so I’m still struggling with processing it and idk what to do. I’ve been looking into therapy, but I can only do online which leaves me hesitant. Any advice would be appreciated.

Any single female from Kolkata ?

My last therapist keeps coming up in my mind. I left her when I moved to a new area before COVID dug in and frankly it felt like leaving a girlfriend. She also disclosed in the final session that she was a member of AA and knew several of the people I occasionally discussed from the rooms. Her knowledge of the program certainly built trust with me early on, but it has been two years. I discussed it with my current therapist but she’s still in there. Any advice?

Should I be ashamed that I’m moving back in with my parents at 25 years old cause of corona? I’ve been feeling a lot of anxiety around housing

I haven’t had any type of romantic/intimate relationship in 10yrs, since I was 16. It has to be me and I should just prepare for a life alone, right?

Ahhhh I murdered myself the last two years for a promotion to the detriment of my mental and physical health, my friendships, and my marriage. Had full support from project and practice leadership. Did not get it. Why do we do this job?

How have you dealt with anti-vaxxer friends? I have one and I’m not mad or angry at them. I’m just disappointed that I’ve associated myself with someone like them. 😔

People that have small children - how do you deal with your child’s stress and separation anxiety when you go to work? My 4-year old goes berserk almost every day at some point relating to me having to work. The worst part is that I’ve been working from home bc of Covid and I’m literally just walking upstairs after giving hugs and kisses and saying see you soon 800 times. My spouse is a stay at home parent, but that doesn’t seem to matter to my son. A piece of me dies everyday because of this.

Thinking about moving from Seattle to San Diego, but don’t have any friends down there. Any advice for how to meet queer friends?

Any F 🐠 in their 30s in DC interested in connecting?

Has anyone tried any paid dating apps? (Match, eHarmony, paid features on Hinge etc.) and is it worth it?

Girlfriend has very obvious high functioning anxiety and body image issues that she admits but thinks she doesn’t need therapy or medication and that reading self-help books will help her. It’s not changing in the last several years and it’s impacting our relationship. Anyone have experience with their SO dealing with untreated anxiety? I know I can’t control her but would like to express my feelings without sending her into a spiral. For context, I’ve been in therapy for 12 months and medicated

Any thoughts on West Hampstead as a place to live in late 20s thinking about kids in the next 5 years?

Any book recommendations to gift my cousin sister? She studied (masters) psychology and is a trained classical dancer.

My partner was very recently diagnosed with Lyme disease. Does anyone who has experience being in a relationship with someone with Lyme have any advice?

For reference, I’m 23 and we’ve been dating for a little less than a year. Thank you in advance!

Men, how do you make yourself feel sexy and successful?

I feel like, I've dependend on my partners to validate me in those ways. But that makes me insecure & dependent on them. They loved me but idk if they "wanted/desired" me.

To feel sexy, I'm working on losing weight and then building muscle, but that'll take time and fade away with age anyway.

To feel successful, I mean... I have an OK career and savings, but I just don't identify either as success.

Maybe, I just want to feel desired.

Any other strategists have their spouse, lover, partner tell you “you just like to argue” ?

My view is while I like to debate I don’t like to argue (the later being infused with negative emotion/pain)

Ya’ll have similar struggles?

Hi - me a girly male - looking for a bi woman or queer who likes women and men

Anyone jumped from B4 to another B4? Where did you go? What was your reasoning? Any regrets? How did the original B4 react?

Anyone have any good audit jokes or one liners?

QBurst is hiring data scientists with 3- 6 YOE. Deep Learning, TensorFlow, PyTorch, ScikitLearn, NLP preferred. WLB is awesome, appraisals happen twice a year and permanent wfh option is there.
DM me for referral. Happy to help :)

On what days exl provide joining

How to ask for a raise when you have more responsibility ?
Is it normal for people to ask for a raise when more responsibility/task fall under them? My company is going through separation and unfortunately my team is the one getting separated, I have to take on responsibility of another 3 people and continue to deliver the same after separation… how will you start this conversation with your manager ? Thanks in advance.

Hi Guys!

I am planning to relocate from Hyderabad to Bangalore.
Can you guys tell how both cities are different in terms of cost of living?

I’m trying to collect some supporting reviews/feedback from some of my stakeholders for an upcoming employee review cycle (we don’t do 360s). In the past these have been sent directly to manager but is there another way to collect them to present to manager/hr? Is it weird to ask them to send directly to me for me to present?

I work for a small agency and manage our internal marketing acct. We had very few processes in place when I started. I’ve since created, implemented, and trained our dept. on project mgmt for clients and am trying to convince the owner to apply those principles to our internal jobs. They are resistant because they just want the work to be done and don’t “want to keep spending money on internal jobs”. I’m confused because we’re doing the work either way and “spending” in labor/resources.

How is job security, work life balance & work culture with CapGemini Invent?

Deloitte peeps.. Can someone give me the detailed run down on how to most cheaply access PrEP? Starting with which health plan option, etc. Thanks in advance!

What's the base CTC of P2 product developer at DXC technology?

What is the process to resign from EXL?
There seems to be no option to create a exit request

Hey all,

YOE - 6 Years
Tech - Frontend Developer (Angular)

I have offers from 2 companies, same pay and almost same benefits.

Software AG (GCS Department) - work will be on Agile Apps (No Code/Low code)

Larsen & Toubro Infotech - Work will be on a client (Schneider) project

Which one would be better?
Please help

YOE: 7
Current CTC: 20L (19 Fixed + 1 variable)
I'm a Java developer building products in networking domain. I'm strong in converting requirements into design and building products from scratch. I'm spending 12 hours everyday at work, unable to spend any time on brushing up algorithms.
I'm not happy with the money that I make for the efforts that I'm putting in, want to switch to good product company. I wish I get more time to learn and prepare for interview. Just putting my thoughts here.

Hi,
I have offer for Salesforce Commerce Cloud B2C Developer position from these companies-
1)Infosys
2)Mindtree
3)TCS
4)VGL
Which one should I choose?
Thankyou for your help and suggestions.