Do you think it's okay to take your birthday off? My birthday is on Friday so I put in PTO and it was approved. I casually mentioned that I was looking forward to having a quiet Friday off and a bunch of coworkers, including my manager, made fun of me for it like it was a bad reason to take time off.

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If my birthday is during the week, I take it off.

I just started this a few years ago and I love it. As a manager, wife and mom- it’s a day for ME!

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What exactly is a good reason to take time off? It’s your vacation time, use it however you want to use it.

Also- who wants to work on their birthday?

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Wow…
Every insurance job I’ve had has always given my birthday as an added PTO day.

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I always take PTO for my birthday

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Heck yeah! No one wants to work on their birthday! Its your PTO use it how you want not based on what others think 😀

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How you use your PTO is your prerogative, If this is a microcosm of the overall work experience you have with this manager and co-workers…if I were you, I’d already be looking toward another path. Cheers!

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PTO = Prepare The Others. Old but valid. I put in my requests not because I'm asking but because I'm telling you this is when I will not be available. I will plan my work accordingly, everyone else needs to plan theirs with my absence if I impact their workload.

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I try to take my whole birthday week off every year, but at the very least I take my birthday off.

How dare you take your special day off. We were planning to have cake for you in the break room. Now what are we supposed to do?!?!?!

It's a perfect reason to take off!! My boss gives us our birthday off without having to use PTO.

Every company should give employees their birthday off, not as PTO as a thank you.

Heck yeah, it's OK to treat yourself with respect and love and take your birthday off. I won't quite call your coworkers or manager "Knuckleheads", but pretty close. Are they that in love with their job that they would not take a day off for a special day?

My birthday was last friday and they denied my PTO. Use your PTO for whatever you can when you can. People just get mad because you have the day off and they don't

Please. I take the entire week off around my birthday. Birthday present to myself. Of course it’s OK!

After a certain amount of years, my company gives u your birthday off as an extra PTO day every year. I said that to say some companies recognize the significance as well. Dont let the ppl u work with make u feel bad. It’s YOUR day. If u wanna use YOUR time, thats YOUR business.

My birthday is on Wednesday 8/20 and I won’t be returning to work until 8/27. Happy Birthday! Enjoy.

I ALWAYS take my birthday off.

Your time, your decision.

Find a new job. If for any reason anyone questions “why” you would want to take time off, get out.

You can take time off if you want for any reason at any time without judgement.

What? That’s weird! I take my birthday off EVERY year!

I never work on my birthday. Ever. Its my way of celebrating my day the way *I* want to celebrate it. You aren't responsible for what they think or how they respond to you doing what you're 100% entitled to do with your PTO time. Enjoy YOUR day!

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