Tata Consultancy Female, 9 years of IT experience. I am in TCS, not earning that well.
Saving approx half of my salary. Supporting my family with 5k as dad is retired.
But at the end of the month account get nil.
It's been almost 6 years I never asked my husband that I need little money at the month end.
Is anyone here who feels shame asking money from husband.
On the other hand when I see my sis-in-law she keep on asking money or things from her husband
Sometime I feel I also leave my job and enjoy.Tata Con

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Try and go for a switch. Working in TCS must be under market standards. One switch you can earn almost double of what you must be earning now. More savings -More paisa left at month end— 5K could be 10k or 20k which u can give your dad 😊 Leaving job — You will be answerable kahan kharcha kia kyu chahie abhi toh diye the 10 din phle.. bla bla.. Financial independence is must now a days
This is just to motivate you regarding your career.
Now things from family pov. There is no shame in asking money from your hubby.whenever you feel u want something and ur acc is empty. Simply tell him.. Muje iski zarurat hai.. apna card do na..meri salary khtm. You guys are family. Don’t think my money or husband’s money. Be like a team. Dont get into tera mera.. Go with Humara approach. On the other hand,In emergency then you should also be able to help your husband when in need.Start saving collaboratively too.
Regards
An unmarried male

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Marriages are so complicated. I am unable to give you any proper advice but it's not about money or being ashamed, you should never feel any discomfort to discuss anything with your life partner.

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I feel proud for the way you think.

I feel sad, that you are more comfortable asking this question here to unknown people but not your hubby. Life partners are supposed to be together through thick and thin. You two are one unit vs the rest of the world.
There are ways you can increase your income - learning new skill and switching, changing field of something else interests you, freelancing, etc but all of that will need immense moral support that only a partner can provide.

I will just pray you get blessed with the courage to open up to your hubby and he understands your point of view, respects it, and feels proud of it like I am and supports you in all the ways you need.

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Switch to new company you will get hike as 9 yoe

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You should not be ashamed of asking money from you husband as he is your better half.

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Switch companies and solve your financial problem

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Don't leave the job and stay at home. It is very important to be financially independent. You can switch job for financial growth.

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