First year at midsize firm, feeling inadequate, especially when certain partners are MIA or don’t really give solid advice on how to complete assignments. Also feel like I’m drowning and cannot say no to partners, they all literally want you to prioritize their work first, which is literally impossible unless I utilize the 24 hours I am given in a day.

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Hang in there. Communication is the key. The “overwhelming” feeling will happen throughout your career (it’s not everyday though, it ebbs and flows), but it’s worse when you’re young and not certain of your ability. That part will get better. Every partner wants their work prioritized (go figure, just like every client!) and the only way to handle that is to communicate. Always keep your partner (your client) fully informed, don’t be afraid to ask questions, stay enthusiastic and positive. We all operate in a high pressure, reactive, service-oriented business, and handling that stress is part of what makes us pros. Stick with it and you’ll get better balancing it all. And be grateful you’re busy - it means you’re well-liked and seen as someone your partners can trust. That’s a big deal. And the opposite (crickets) is far, far worse. So hang in there, work hard, learn, and when the pressure hits, think of it like a big wave that you need to surf instead of fight. Good luck!

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This is amazing. Thank you x1000

Sounds exactly like BigLaw. It’s funny that I see this today because i was just having a convo with a buddy about leaving big law to go to a mid-size firm for the better hours & nicer people. I always tend to think the grass is greener on the other side. Maybe I wont be truly happy until im retired.

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If everyone needs something from you, it probably means you're doing a good job. I know that's not totally reassuring when you've got a pile of work to do and no idea how it will all get done but it's true.

Take back some control over when you can deliver things. If five people ask you for five different things that all take 3-5 hours and want them by tomorrow, tell each of them you cannot guarantee that because you are slammed today with other projects with the same deadline. Ask if they can wait an extra day or half day to receive it.

Everyone will always be asking you for something - the key is to realize that sometimes you have to say no, which will force them to come up with another solution than just relying on you to deliver, even when you have no time. You have that power. Step into it.

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