Guilty or Not Guilty of Slacking?
The sitch: Father of two, 3.75 and 1.5 y/o. Wife is a teacher WFH during 5 hrs a day. I am working from home as well, just can't get in all the billable hours.

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Guilty - parents are filing for bankruptcy very unexpectedly so I have been extremely stressed and distracted.

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On a side note, might be the best time to start a small practice if you have the means. Run a lean ship, centered around some of the newest, cost effective technology in the biz.

My mother in law was our childcare provider for the little one. Her husband is traveling sales, but grounded for forseeable future. Taking over what was a nursery as his office. I am technically allowed the paid sick leave and emergency FMLA. I have expressed using a few hours of this each workday to my employer HR. Three days no response.

Really relieved you didn't say 45 and 18 months

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