I can't stop thinking about my senior manager. I don't have romantic or sexual feelings for him, but just keep wanting to impress him with work etc. I really respect him and treat him as a mentor,...

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I can tell you don’t have any romantic or sexual feelings for him. Totally 😉

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Ugh. You might be right.

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Sounds like Stockholm syndrome

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Curious - what has s/he done for you to cause this amount of loyalty and respect?

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...but this has got to stop! I cant seem to take my mind off of him. Don't know what to do...

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Give him some cookie and problem
Solved

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Find a hobby and focus less on the work

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Seems like there's been a lot of ~secret admiration~ posts lately towards seniors and managers... notice us senpai! 🙇

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Appreciate your respect towards me, keep impressing me with good work. Ahh, and I also have a new engagement lined up for you....

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...in my pants

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How attractive is he?

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Narrator: they had romantic/sexual feelings for him.

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Tfw your entire team is attractive and you want to impress them... 👩‍💻👨‍💻

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