Hello Dear People,

Need some genuine advise . I am married for 3 years and recently was graced with a son. My problem is my wife doesn't care about my family members and keeps complaining to me all the time regarding household work , if i buy anything for them ,etc ,etc

As a couple our equation is mostly good but due to this reason our relationship sometimes goes through really tough phases. She is a pessimist when it comes to dealing with my family , how do i handle all these things .

Anybody else miss the con-call hold music? I feel like I am missing an old friend...

My wife is incredibly stressed out and unhappy in her career. It’s been affecting our marriage significantly. I just had a conversation with her where I asked her to stay home and I said I’ll fully support her. It seems like she took it well.

I’m in SF but nervous to officially come out to my friends even though I’m sure they all know/assume anyway. :(

Any tips for hard launching partners on social media? For context, I’ve (Indian American female) been dating my white American boyfriend for 3 years and we just got engaged after two years of convincing my parents. They are very happy and excited now, but I’m scared shitless about being ostracized / judged by my extended family and Indian community in the US once I “let the cat out of the bag” on the engagement news. I want to be proud and confident about this but could use some moral support.

So let’s say if someone’s father / very close relative was very high up in the government of India in Delhi. How does that person go about leveraging his / her relationships, legally, to do something in India? Would you rather do that or stay in the US in consulting?

Does anyone here work for Axiom or know someone who does and, if so, how difficult is it to stay fully engaged?

How have you combated your fear of rejection? I fixate on such small things as when my friends, for example, reject plans I have made. This definitely makes me more averse to putting myself out there and makes me ruminate on past perceived failures, which are clearly not good for personal growth

Do men in their 30s actually want to settle down and get married? It seems like most are pretty happy with their single lifestyle. Asking as a 26F who is looking for commitment if I should even bother

Hi i lost majority of my money in the stock market. I married and promised my family that I will not make the mistake I made 7 years ago. Gambling. Is this an addiction I have. I keep selling stocks and taking loses buying other stock hoping it will recover but never did and sell again taking loses and buy again. It now sink in to me. I borrow personal loan hoping that the market will do k and I pay it back but I even lost that. I can't stop crying that I hurt the one I love the most my family.

Does anyone have ideas for social distancing little kids walking in line? Teaching personal space in moving lines is difficult in normal years, but this year I don't know how I will get them to keep a 6ft. distance as they walk.

Do you think you and your significant other should have similar personalities? My significant other and I are doing long distance and I feel like when I FaceTime with him, I emote more and show interest by asking more questions but from his end, he doesn’t always have a reaction or just nods, and it makes me feel like he’s uninterested. On his end he sees it as he’s comfortable.

Dear crypto and other investments,

I have come to the realization that I absolutely do not want to work for the rest of my life. I would much rather spend my time living it up with my gf and the boys, traveling the world and living my life. Therefore, I am counting on you to not be an endless disappointment and come through clutch.

Love, someone who will go full office space if you fail me.

Have you walked away from somebody you loved? And why?

Can a sex less marriage survive if everything else is as great as a couple can have in realistic and non filmy scenario.

Bf of 3 months has an active shaadi profile. Is it too much to ask him to take it down? He says his parents maintain it 🙄 At what point is it too much?

Do friends ever dump you onto your therapist or psychiatrist or dismiss your valid, normal feelings as “oh did you tell your doctor about this?” I feel like they’re just shitty friends delegating off.

Only divorce services for uncontested and amicable divorces

Just got divorced after being separated for a year. Any suggestions for places to go and meet new folks?

Are there any mothers here who voluntarily gave primary custody to the kids father? I love my children fiercely but tbh I don’t think I’m cut out to be a single parent. Family and friends tell me I’m a great mom but at the end of the day having them on my own is exhausting and I end up just either letting them do whatever they want Bc I don’t feel strong enough to set a limit about it, or yelling at them. They’re 4 and 7 for reference. Please constructive responses only. Thank you!

Hi folks,

1. Seeking a referral to McK/Bain generalist role. Or PE role (seems not avail). In hiring process with others.

2. Also happy to take any insights about current hiring in T1/T2!

3. Limited to Singapore?

4 YOE in a major tech consulting firm leading workstreams in large transformation projects, change management, digital strategy.

Started out with an accounting degree, but hated it and thus went to tech. Hoping to focus more on upstream/core business oriented work. Thanks!

My lawyers filed my h1b extension and amendment together even after advising not to by the v and I advisor. I’m getting freaked out. Any suggestions ?

What are the job opportunities for a data analyst/ data scientist in AWS cloud? I currently have 2 YOE and working with Accenture. I want to switch. How much salary can I expect? Current CTC: 6 lpa.

I am AWS certified cloud practitioner. Currently preparing for AWS solutions architect. Please suggest.

If you join pwc with an approved I140, do they start the green card transfer (perm, i140) immediately ? I was told by recruiter it will start immediately after H1 transfer . I Wanted to know how true this is if anyone been through this

Big on BK -3 today.

What is the average salary for an account manager in employee benefits at brokers firm? And what about a senior account manager salary? I have 7 years of experience in the health insurance industry. I want to see if I’m on track or if it would be out of line to ask for a raise.

My current package 18 laks at 8 year experience how much i can expect with TCS now

Females, how much of your personal life do you disclose to the men in your team? I.e. Lovers, relationships, ONS etc

I just found out a new colleague was brought on at 20% higher salary than my current salary. (Have been w/ firm 1.5 years) She doesn’t have a 4-year degree (working on it). How do I bring this inequity up and ask to be compensated equally? I have years more experience and My work is more complex - she is basically a receptionist. Any suggestions would be helpful!

Favorite halal restaurant in Boston? Help a Muslim brother out 😅

I accepted a job for Federal Services despite loving my current employer. They really want me to stay, can anyone speak on experience a AFS? Also can anyone speak on the training accenture provides for the salesforce practice? I'm coming in at L9 Tech Lead, Specialist and Salesforce developer.

Hi Fishes,
What's your thoughts, need valuable feedback.
I am currently working in TCS wd CTC as 18lpa
Got offer from below organizations.
HCL(25L+1.52L is variable) - Senior tech lead
CTS(25.5L+70k variable+ 1.2L JB) - senior associate Project

Exp 8+

Priority -WLB and job security.

Please suggest which one to consider at this time keeping the market scanario around ressession now.

Tinder on Fish bowl

Is there future in transaction risk investigator position will i get job in other companies

I married my gf 2 years back after a long relationship, and having disagreement from both of our parents, finally they agreed even though she is from another part of the country and from a different cast.

forward to now....
I'm just following all their rituals and ceremonies as per their customs why ???
Because they say the do like this or that, when it comes my side of things then they say oh we don't follow like that.

It's painful you know , seeing my.parents and my self helpless in that

If I say same thing to her mom, whatever she said to my mom.
How do I dare to talk her mom like that, I was like wtf.

Anyone like Sexting?? I am married man but I enjoyed that...