My 11 year old daughter decided to start blogging on anime. Would love to connect her to the broader community of black anime lovers. Hoping y’all can show her some love... as I want to encourage her to pursue those things she is passionate about.

Do any female desis who are married take care of their own parents?

So I just moved states. I’m staying with a parent for a while in a pretty large house and my cat keeps hiding for hours on end (I think to snooze). Any thoughts? She’s spent time with me and I walked around with her while she explores. And she’s ventured solo. Seemed she’s warming up well. Except this again. I admit it’s giving me horrible anxiety that she won’t respond at all until I locate her because even I’m learning where things are and want her to be safe. This is the third time 😭

Opinions on career clerkships? Especially with a two year old and wanting another child eventually.

It's an exhausting time to be working in this industry, to say the least. How do you prevent taking your work home with you?

Currently going through divorce proceedings. I honestly don't want to date anyone right now but I have this fear that I'm already 28 and I'll never meet anyone good. I went on some apps and matched with some guys but I feel like they're all the same and I don't wana get to know anyone. But I'm also scared for my future.

What are some thoughts that get you out of your breakup sadness zone? I need to borrow them.

1. Have a better life than the one you imagined with him
2. Build a big life. Being rich and famous solves everything.
3. Mind your business. Be the main character in your story.

I am devastated. Ive been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years we were taking about getting married and having kids. Then I discovered he was also in another relationship - 2 years in.
He promised her all the same sweet stuff. I'm trying not to be too hard on myself but I'm not sure I can recover from this.

I’m just kinda feeling lost, a bit like a failure , and maybe tired . I’m 30 f, single, moved to a new town, studying for the cpa, had falling out with the first two friends I made in new town, deeply missing my friends from back home, work has been a lot - job hopping . The partner was so excited and quick to give me an offer. I feel like I’m 💯 at this point just disappointing him. Idk what advice someone could give me , but has anyone else gone through “just surviving period”

My husband told me today that he cant handle another busy season - i.e me working all the time and he taking care of our two year old girl after his work. Cant say I blame him - but I feel drained

The biggest thing I keep running and running around my head- after 8 months, why did he drop me? When he texted ending it l….it wasn’t me, like we weren’t us, his words were from someone else, like I didn’t matter. It doesn’t matter how much it wasn’t about me, how he chose to end it, and that’s what crushed me. Who I thought I knew was wrong. I want to know how close he was to loving me.

SIL and BIL told us excitedly last weekend that she was pregnant (had literally just found out, so barely four weeks). This week she tells us she’s not pregnant anymore :(. They did not seem super torn up about it and were very practical about it. We said how sorry we were, etc etc. should I do anything else? Should I not mention it again unless they do?

A friend of mine was arrested last night over a DUI charge and his family is worried sick. How can I help comfort them...

What are some of the nice things that your SO do for you?

Do you ever get over an ex you loved?

So uhhh anyone need a house sitter the week before memorials day weekend? Wanted to visit the city and go to the office a few days but my friend who I usually crash with is out of town

My last therapist keeps coming up in my mind. I left her when I moved to a new area before COVID dug in and frankly it felt like leaving a girlfriend. She also disclosed in the final session that she was a member of AA and knew several of the people I occasionally discussed from the rooms. Her knowledge of the program certainly built trust with me early on, but it has been two years. I discussed it with my current therapist but she’s still in there. Any advice?

How does one find a group of friends? Meeting people individuality or as couples is too much work

Any thoughts on the IP litigation outlook in Atlanta and/or Charlotte? Looking to move but I’m not sure of the workload there. I predominately focus on patent infringement at my current firm.

Has anyone’s company moved their return to office date FORWARD? Curious to hear of anyone’s experience

Do you find your performance when exercising way worse when in ketosis? I’m way slower at running & workouts feel particularly hard to keep going. Does your body get adapted to it, or it standard?

What’s up with people talking about withdrawing from retirement due to CARES Act and investing elsewhere?

Hi Team,
As offer letter employment mentioned with Nagarro Software but they designation offered at Nagarro enterprise software services Ltd. (As per Google search ,its unlist company in India).Could you please clear what does mean it ,every Nagarro offer letter looks like that?

Any recommendations (or watch outs) for au pair agencies? CT/NY area if it matters. TIA!

Hi there! May be looking to make a move back to Vancouver within a year what’s it like over there right now? Are the jobs as scarce as the posts in this bowl?

Guys after how many days project calls are received?

Hi fellow Fishes,
I came across an interesting opportunity at Tavisca.
Can anyone refer me for the position?
Thanks in advance!

Currently looking for Tech consulting/ Implementation consultant/ privacy roles in London. I have both CIPP/E and CIPM.
Please let me know if you know any roles that are available? Or any recruitment agencies you can refer me to

Thank you

UK senior consultants, how much of your sales come from big tenders and how much come from work you win 1 to 1 from your own network?

If you won a piece of central govt work worth £1m and 5 of you worked on the bid, how much credit does each person get?

*I'm new and trying to understand how sales targets work. Be gentle

How is job security in Harman Connected?Could you please share your thoughts.

H1B Petition got picked in this year’s lottery - Can I switch jobs within my company before the petition is approved?

Has anyone ever used those sauna blankets? Tempted by all the ads, but curious if others have tried and if they’re worth the price?

Poll: would you take a job for a lot less than you’re making now but you’d work half the hours and have a lot less stress, yet still be doing work that motivates and inspires you (and builds your portfolio)?

Was there a specific point where all this became real for you all? I’m almost 6 weeks and have only had mild symptoms and wondering when it will finally hit for me.

Has anyone had any success doing online dating to find their catholic significant other? I would have loved finding someone in Consulting but just finding someone that is openly catholic has been a challenge.

Welcome everyone! I wanted to create a space for us to have debates discussions recommendations and memes so feel free to weeb our to your hearts content lol

My hubby watches. I'll ask him to come in and comment as he is looking for people to discuss these things with

What you consider the Top 3 Anime OGs go!

If you’ve seen Baki how do you feel about Muhammad Ali Jr v Baki fight??

Has anyone watched the spongebob anime on YouTube lol

Is anyone currently reading the MHA manga?? I’m on edge every week