Hello fish, I’m currently a Partner with 25 years experience. My work life balance sucks. I don’t make nearly as much as I think I should. On my 2nd marriage and now living sober. How am I doing?

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I read this as a 25 year old partner and starting convulsing

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The dream

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About how I expect a 25YOE partner to do

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You are sober which is a VICTORY

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Get out. You've got 25 years undee your belt. Pivot, get paid more, find a new routine hobby with a group to keep you accountable, and nurture your marriage. You're doing good.

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Also, FIRE is the new partnership these days

This guy doesn’t Fire

You’re doing amazing!

are you happy?

Why work still ? Go do a hobby or second career.

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Haven't put down the paper yet (notice period will be 2 months)

What can the expected CTC for a 5 YOE? I want good WLB and growth in a product based company.

Preferred location: Bengaluru (India)

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How do you all deal with the guilt of leaving a comany/ team? I have been working at Microsoft for 1 year now, and seriously considering moving. I find the code base to be very legacy and I mostly work on obscure bugs that I spend so much time on, mostly due to navigating this large code base and not having much docs to refer to. Hence I find the job slightly unsatisfying, and that I could learn more elsewhere. However, I love the wlb, the team and company culture. The guilt stops my applying.

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Curious what % of partners/MDs have spouses who also work. And regardless of non/working spouse, what do you do to feel a work/family balance?

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Hi Fishes,

I have offer from both nagaroo and Publicis sapeint. Project is not decided in PS but Nagarro hire me for the ZS Client itself.

I am looking for job security, wlb and good project to work on.

Fishes, can you please suggest which should I join?

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I have 2 offers : EY India

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LTI - 18 LPA FIXED + 1 L retirals + 75k JB

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Hi Fishes,
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Money isn’t everything but in my late 20s it feels like the only thing important right now.

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Drank too much coffee I think... even my poo and pee smell like coffee

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Thanks in advance.

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Also it would be great if someone can give guidance on exit clearances as I'm worried that I will miss out something.
TIA.

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