How can you respectfully let a senior team member know that you are not available to be their ‘office bitch’ but still maintain a collaborative and friendly approach?

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Rather than saying you don’t have time to help, which sounds like you’re not good at your job, say something like “sure, I’m at capacity with the following deliverables. Which would you like me to deprioritize to make time for that task?” Or, if they’re not your boss but just a senior person, you can say something like “id be happy to. I have a couple priority items I’m working on right now. Can you run your request by my boss to see if they’re ok with my taking on this task?”

This way you don’t have to flat out refuse, but can help them get to the No on their own.

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Set some boundaries. If they try to delegate something to you that isn't your job or you don't have time for, just be straightforward about it. "Sorry, I'm all tied up with a project and don't have the capacity to help you out at the moment! Hopefully you'll be able to find someone else who has more bandwidth." Lather, rinse, repeat. Problem solved.

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