Do you ever feel undatable thanks to how much we travel? If I'm only "home" 6 days a month, how can I possibly develop a relationship?

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I feel undatable when I don't travel, so at least while traveling I have a somewhat valid excuse.

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If it's someone worth being with, they will understand and you will make it work like texting/emailing/calling/FaceTime each other when you can. You can build a relationship that way. When I first started dating my now husband, he was in the military and deployed overseas for 7 months. We were on complete opposite schedules as he was on the other side of the world. We got to know each other better while through emails and FB msgs.

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Now you understand why working at the client is important to develop relationships, with clients :)

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Holy shit, 6 days a week? That sounds more like choice than necessity

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Never mind, just googled it.

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find someone who also prioritizes the things you do (if thats work for you, find another workaholic). the problems come up when people prioritize different things and resent their partner for not wanting the same things they do.

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Quit

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Date a client. Problem solved. Long term project potential and can be with them every week.

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Find anothet busy professional to date. My SO is a doctor with as little time at home as I have. He respects me for my career accomplishments and choices, as well as for who I am. You can find someone suitable, too!

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Doing it as single mom with toddler. Seems impossible.

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OP good on you for not finding a Jody

Sorry, that was @C1

Date another consultant. At least they'll get it.

@Accenture2 - Jody?

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I’m totally empathetic to people that miss offices and traveling. I understand your reasons why, I truly do.

For me personally, after non-stop weekly travel for 4 straight years, not traveling has made me realize how much I enjoy being home. Spending time with family, sleeping in your own bed, consistent exercise schedule, etc.

I for one hope consulting becomes more of a hybrid travel model (i.e. travel 1-2x per month or as needed). Else it won’t be for me.

Anyways, just some thoughts.

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