How do you cope up with loneliness in this country? I feel like as I aging I am getting more lonelier 🙁

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Try and talk to the neighbors. We have made so many friends from various backgrounds and age groups. Literally have friends as young as 24 and as old as 80

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Cannot relate to neighbor, not the same background, culture or ethnicity. The neighborhood seems bit reserved to the brown folks on the street 😂

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