How long to wait after suggesting second date? Been a while since I been excited aboit someone soo want to not f it up!

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I’m not good at the “games” … I suggested a 2nd date the day as I was walking back to my apt from the 1st date 😂

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Will second this. I have no patience for the games. I’ll suggest a second date at the end of a successful first one and then follow up the next day to make plans.

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I got invited to spend an entire weekend with a guy after a date on Sunday. And he wanted my cat and his dog to meet to see if they get along. That was too quick for me.

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I love it. I woukdnt so it but would hold it against anyone

When was the first date and has there been communication since? Typically I’d suggest a second date right after the first, and I would follow-up as we text or FaceTime

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If you're excited (and you think they might be just as excited) don't wait, no reason to mask your true feelings :) Me and my partner were transparent about all our feelings from the beginning, it's been really nice not playing guessing games

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Usually within a week or following the weekend after. Most of the time, I let them decide what to do

That seems like a lot of people you could pass on that are thinking the same thing

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