I am receiving lot of virtual happy hour meeting invites! Like almost for every weeks and it drives me crazy. I am okay to socialize with office folks like once a month. Am I crazy to think like that?

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I just decline

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I just don’t join 🤪

I haven’t been invited to a single one, oops

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I have not even got 1 ☹️

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Same same

Yeah, just don’t go. IRL stuff will probably ding you long run if you’re not super engaged with people during the day, though

I am well engaged with people on day to day activities . It’s just that I have had a long week and waiting for my Friday evening to take a nice nap or cuddle with my partner or take a good workout, these stuffs pop up. I have a life outside of office u know even when I am quarantined. I am just curious as why are these things enforced upon everyone and frowned upon if some one doesn’t join.

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No. I was just saying the same thing tonight.

Some people need it. Others, like yourself don’t.

It’s not mandatory, don’t worry about it. There are some people who enjoy the connection, it’s ultimately a good thing.

I don’t join and I don’t feel guilty about it. I have a husband and kids and there’s so much we do as a family nowadays. For most single folks living alone, that is the only way of connecting with others so I understand their need for the virtual house parties. I have no plans of joining in the near future - I’m too busy catching up with my kids and trying to be the cool mom 😉

Our Friday team happy hours end around 6:30, then we get back to work. Would rather skip the happy hour and finish early

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