I am so paranoid about a new job :(

Signed the offer, waiting for background check/reference to pass through/initiating visa switch process and the whole waiting process is killing me. Everyday I am in a constant state of worry if something goes wrong (without any reason).

Has anyone ever had similar experience? Kinda ridiculous that I have been so chilled throughout the months-long job search but start having anxiety issues after it's done.

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Completely understandable. It’s the same reason why people who get rescued from a disaster situation are often the most fearful after they’re secured-in as the rescue helicopter is about to take off… You’ve already been through the worst. Try not to waste emotion and energy on a possibility that is 100% out of your control. That said, congratulations and good luck!

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Background checks cost the company money. They are annoying but most companies would not do one if they were not interested in you.

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I get anxious with the background check even though I don’t have a record lol. Sometimes I even fear they’ll rescind the offer.

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BA1 I have nothing to be nervous about it’s just the way my anxious brain works. I know I’m good but at times I trick myself into thinking something’s wrong.

Everything will be just fine ✨✨

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Honestly, very much understandable, been in the same boat and it drove me insane. Especially with the current market and how there's this complete lack of loyalty being shown. I hope things get sorted for you quick though.

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Next time please wait until after the background check clears to put your 2 weeks in

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I haven't put my notice yet - just nervous about things I shouldn't be nervous about

M1 depends on how rigorous. Could be looking for criminal activity, traffic violations, credit check, tax issues, checking past references, checking your academic and license credentials. If you didn’t lie on your resume and have no serious crimes you should be ok. Some companies might have an issue with significant debt but only if you’re working close to money

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I'm curious how many months was your job search?

exactly 60 days from sending my first CV to signing the offer.

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