I came from a third world country to Canada, a first world country, in search of a full stomach and basic necessities of life, but unfortunately, I have encountered more hurdles than I experienced in other countries.

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This struggle is very common amongst the first generation of migrants. Unfortunately, immigrants have a very glorified view of countries like UK, Canada, and USA - it is probably the Hollywood movies that create this delusion. The reality is very different. You must get used to being insecure, may it be from a career perspective or even from financial health perspective. You are only making sacrifices for your future generations with a hope that these countries will continue to be "glamourous" for your future generations. If you think your life will be better than it was in your country, you are wrong. It is just a different lifestyle here.

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That's really tough. It just goes to show that people have unique struggles everywhere. I'm sorry that this is happening, hopefully you will be able to overcome everything that stands in your way. We have our problems but there are a lot of opportunities here. Good luck.

I am sorry to hear that OP. I know it is not easy to move to a new place let alone a new country. If you are looking for a new role I would suggest posting in the job referral bowl and seeing if you can get any leads in there.

From India?

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