I get slightly offended when anyone greets me with slang in a professional setting. Am I being overly sensitive?

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Define anyone… I’m not going to be mad at a black person, but a white person is going to get the immediate side-eye, especially if they only use slang with me.

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Agree. If it’s a black person then I’m cool with it but white? I’m going to have to hit them with the “Excuse me Sir/ma’am come again?”

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To each is own. I love it. Like okay my brother/sister I see you. Just as long as they didn’t say it extremely loud.

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That “my brotha” is disturbing from white counterparts for me personally.

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To clarify- these are non-black individuals who aren’t my family or work friends

I am the same if you’re white. I don’t want to be relatable like that

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