I had a miscarriage and I am scared to get pregnant.

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I’m so sorry. I had 2 miscarriages after having my son. When I got pregnant with my daughter, I was terrified the entire time. I don’t think I realized how much anxiety I was carrying until after she was born. Every day I felt like I was waiting for the shoe to drop and I honestly found it hard to enjoy the milestones of my pregnancy like I did with my first. She’ll be 6 months old next week.

Be kind to yourself and give yourself grace. Feel all the feelings. You are so strong, even if it may not feel like it. Sending love ❤️

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Same exact story here. 💗💗

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I’m sorry you’re going through it. I had multiple miscarriages before each of my 2 full term pregnancies. To get myself through it I had to look at it (them) as not a loss but just having to wait longer to meet my daughter. Not scientific but soothing to me. It is scary to try again. But believe me if you have a child it’s not the scariest thing you’ll go through. Children find a way to raise the bar. So take a deep breath and try again. You do the best you can to stay healthy but it’s out of your hands so you have to let that go. ♥️

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I had a miscarriage and it broke me. Give yourself time to heal. Therapy helped a lot, especially when I got pregnant again. It sucks and I’m sorry. Let yourself grieve ❤️

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Echoing this. ☝️ I just had my “rainbow baby” at the end of last year and I don’t think I could have gotten through the pregnancy (and the rest of 2020) without therapy. It will be hard, and painful, and scary at times - let yourself acknowledge your grief and your loss. I’m sorry for what you’re going through. I understand it all too well.

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I’m so sorry for your loss. My first pregnancy ended in miscarriage and it was hard to shake the fear of subsequent losses. Just know that you’re not alone and you’re not broken. Your body will heal. Your heart will heal. Sending love 💕

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Sending ❤️

I’m so sorry

I’m so so sorry for your loss.

Talk with your OB, they can help you understand options.

I was prescribed insertable progesterone for my pregnancy after two miscarriages and it helped.

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