I have been in a dead bedroom for 5+ years. After lots of individual and marriage therapy over 2 years it is showing signs of recovering. 🙏

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While a full blown sexual reawakening has not happened (yet!) baby steps in the right direction makes me swell with gratitude.

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Giving us hope OP

5 years. Wow. Did something happen? How many years married? Hope it keeps turning in the right direction for you.

I wouldn’t say dead here, but def routine and fairly infrequent to where I’d like to be. 2 young kids and both of us working FT doesn’t help, but you gotta communicate and work at it. It ain’t easy!

Agree...remember to schedule time for you two

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