I've never dated strangers before and it occured to me that I always assumed that after a few dates, there was an implied exclusivity. Not commitment, but it does makes me uncomfortable that the person I have a connection with is still looking elsewhere rather than seeing if the existing potential develops into a serious relationship.

Would it be weird to bring it up with someone? I'm trying online dating and this is like a whole new world 😂

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Woah, I just realized that I’ve never really dated strangers either.

Not weird to have this conversation after a few dates; be open about your desire for exclusivity! It’s not always assumed, depending on the person.

It’s okay to have an open honest conversation about what each of you are looking for

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