I put a lot of efforts making friends and always try to be with my friends whenever they need. But, I didn’t always get invited to the party while guys they complained a lot and they hate…those guys are often invited. Maybe attraction is a part of problem in making friendship? Because the guy I hang out have big preference with certain race and he wants to be friend with them more than me. And it seems to insult me sometimes…but let’s be positive… maybe culture, language and other? I’m sad tho.

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These are fake friends who are using you.

Go make new better friends.

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This very much seems like a you problem tbh. You don’t need to worry about who is attractive or why.
You need to worry about why you’re craving a friendship with someone who doesn’t care about you and makes you feel sad. That’s the real issue.

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Do they post pics with you on social media, or only with guys who look the same? I was cropped out of a shirtless pic a few years ago by an instagay - me and a few others, he said the pic was “too big” to post and needed trimmed down… This was a “good” friend… I no longer hang out with fake friends He also used Manly to further define the abs of the guys left in and make their limbs bigger 🫠 Lot of gays can be nasty and narcissistic. I would find new “friends.” I realized he only posted on social media with 9s and 10s, but had no problem coming to my house for dinner or hanging out when he was bored.

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It’s more likely culture/language. Or maybe you come off in a way that makes it look like you’re interested in them and they don’t want to lead you on?

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