I used a phrase “our brethren” in a meeting and got dinged by the HR team. Apparently it’s a not an appropriate phrase to use in a professional setting because it’s sexist 😳

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The definition is “fellow Christians or members of a male religious order” so I can see why they’d think that

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Common usage?
I don’t think there’s any common usage for brethren. Who uses that?

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Are you kidding me? I would have laughed uncontrollably. It's a great word!

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PwC, I love the mute button for these times.

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Using the full breadth of English isn't permitted anymore. You have to stick to whatever is permitted by the corporate Newspeak manual.

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Let’s take a trip to room 101

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Zachary, that's strike two.

-HR

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Welcome to progressive ruled corporate America.

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Lol yes because “bretheren” is what makes the work place intolerable…that’s a good one 🤣

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It’s a pretty weird term. What’s so wrong with saying “everyone” or “folks”.

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It’s not the right context for “folks” or “everyone”. I should have said “our colleagues from other practices” instead.

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Isn’t this the same HR that dressed up like “bats from wuhan” and mocked chinese people in australia?

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I'm not bothered by the phrase but it sounds odd lol

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Try comrades next time

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Whoa! People are getting waaaaay too sensitive these days.

But irregardless, kinda a strange way to refer to people at work…???

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Lol. Poke the bear. I’m so blind on this app without my reading glasses.

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Meh, I am female I think that's a stretch...I wouldn't have thought twice about it. I did see colleagues from another practice be referred to as our "brothers and sisters" in consulting. I was offended by the cheesiness and gave it an off-camera eye role but that's about it 😅

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D4 agree

“I ask no favor for my sex. All I ask of our brethren is that they take their feet off our necks.” ❤️

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Does “take your feet off our necks” apply to the people we’re language-policing constantly?

I’m a raging feminist and even I think that’s ridiculous 🙄

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I’ll just leave this here…

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+1 on not being able to use the full breadth of the English language.

Madam also means the woman in charge at a prostitution establishment

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Who’s the Karen that reported you?

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🤡🤡🤡

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Who says that tho

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Are you in Utah?

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