I want to buy a large TV for Cyber Monday but have always been lower income. I would feel bad having family over with an expensive TV. I don't really need it. Our house is still very much low budget. I haven't made any real upgrades since getting a new job.

Is this a weird rationalization or logical? I am kind of torn so I considered just using that money for a vacation and maybe buying a TV next year... though I'll likely do this again at that time.

I just broke off my first real relationship after almost 5 years. Even though I made the final call, the pain is still horrible and I have depression/anxiety separate from this. Any advice beyond the

Home reno financing question. Have a big project coming up in the $120-150k range. Funding sources are:
- 90k from a heloc around prime
- 10k from a credit card that offers promo checks at 2-3% for 12-18 months
- 375k in a brokerage
- 5-6k per month cash that I can put towards the project, loans, or brokerage

I don't want to stop funding the brokerage because my FIRE plan is less numbers based than "hoard like dragon until it's enough" but maybe I should... How would you optimize?

What’s a good budget for rent if I’m making 138k + 14k sign on in NYC? I’ve got like 10k in student loans and about 5k in credit cards. No other obligations.

Kpi reply krta b h is group me
Techm need NPS account from kotak only
How to open a new one.

Family luddites ask about my work and immediately behave annoyed when I start to answer.

I have “unlimited vacation” at my firm. How much vacation/PTO is given at big law firms that don’t have unlimited?

Personal finance book recommendations?

What are the best stocks to invest in right now

Salam. 23M here - all my life I’ve had my back on our faith - never really prayed but had imaan (I guess). After bouts of depression from girl problems (🙄), issues within immediate family, being disappointed expectations I had for myself, etc. I’ve been working on bettering my situation over the years. Faith is the only area where I think I need more guidance. Having trouble relating to friends or family about this. Anyone else been thru something similar? How have you connected back to Islam?

To all the divorced folks out there...

1) What went wrong in your relationship?
2) What's one piece of advice you'd give to us singletons before jumping into a long term relationship/marriage?

I like to learn from other people's mistakes 😅

If anyone is looking to create a Robinhood account and wants a free stock, I’m one referral code away from earning a free stock...👀

Good recommendations for realtors in LP/OT area? Apartment rentals. Thank you!

Hi Fishes,
I have recently joined Deloitte and have to submit my HRA declaration, my work location is Hyderabad and even i staying in Hyderabad on rent but my owner refuse to give me her PAN card details.
I can submit my parents PAN details ( both are retired but they stay in Jharkhand) instead of my owners
Can you guys plz suggest ?

Best Co-living PG near Bagmane Tech Park Bangalore or in Whitefield?
Moving to Bangalore for 2 months with wife.

Hey ENGINEERS, anyone needs any assistance in Income Tax return filing, please DM me.

I’m having trouble transitioning from work to home. What do you guys do to get yourself in the “home” mind so you can be fully present for your kids? What are your transition routines?

Did anyone apply for amex card as an employee, recently, after the acquisiions started ?

Going with a solo 401k so I can borrow 50k if I need it for buisness purposes in the future with no questions asked and fast what companies should I look at?

So student loans aren’t being forgiven this year…right? I think it’s time I open the flood gates and dump all I’ve been saving towards my loans. Or should I leave 10k in hopes of forgiveness later on?

Why are relationships so difficult!!!

I’m in SF but nervous to officially come out to my friends even though I’m sure they all know/assume anyway. :(

Hi Fishes,

Could you help by suggesting some good Bluetooth Keyboard for MacBook Air M1 ?

Thank you in advance!!

What companies easily start gc applications ?

Hi Fishes,

How is WLB in RBS account in Mphasis, can qnine share some input.

What is the employee grade hierarchy for Finance in NatWest Group

Hey Folks,

Can anyone refer me for SAP CS/SD consultant.
YOE : 2

Has anyone filed two I-485 at the same time,one from your employer and another as a derivative on your spouse’s I-485? Is this allowed?

Hey HAVAS, how's it going?

A shout-out to the timely, engaging, and relevant work created by Grab in-house for the SEA region. It should be awarded creative advertiser of the year.

As if Arnold wasn't depressing enough, people have started a rumor that we had massive layoffs today and they didn't lay ME off. If you need me, I'll be drinking free craft beer at my desk 🤦🏼‍♂️

Have you ever used topresume or wonsulting services? Does it make sense to pay them?

Just got some fun news, my CEO decided he wants to have an office Christmas party this and just told me I'm in charge of it... Does anyone have any suggestions on where I can host a party for around Christmas for 150-220 people? I know this is super last minute

How is everyone’s workload? I was insanely busy the last month but the past week or so has slowed significantly.

Hello everyone! I am so interested in developing centers for my 5th grade math classroom. I'd you are a math center guru, I would love any suggestions, recommendations, or examples of what works and what doesn't work! Thanks!

5 good product based company for .NET profile, appreciate your insight!

Today's weather is a clear sign that Catholic God is stronger than Eastern Orthodox God

🎶I don't know why I slept with that guy,
Perhaps I was high...🎵

If your GF is interested in a 3some, what are your thoughts on that? 🤭

Therapy Scheduling Issues - I love my therapist but they are not able to schedule sessions on the weekend or Friday evening and I’ve missed 7/10 last sessions scheduled due to last minute work stuff. I’m sad I’m losing a great therapist. Should I try to make it work or find someone with more scheduling flexibility?

I recommend books I've never read to people who ask for book suggestions.

i’m first place in my fantasy football league rn - best record and highest points. should i give away my backup TE for a backup RB? i don’t really need … everett for henderson 🫠 hmu fam 🫠

I woke up 6am. It was dark. It’s 6:30am and it’s still pitch black. Ew

Is it illegal to tell someone to get out of your car if your in a national park at night? What if the person made you feel unsafe and you wanted them out of your car, even though the location was a bit dangerous (ex Yellowstone, Smoky Mountains)?

After ~20-30 min on a call, I stop paying attention.

Hey humans! this morning I exercised, steam roomed, and floated in a sensory deprivation tank. I can now see time flow like a river in front of me. I’m resonating the most positive auras and essences out to you all on a Saturday. Keep it breezy. 💨 💃 🏖

I hated working at the big4 couple of years ago. How do you people sleep at night ?

This lady on Ted Lasso looks too much like Megyn Kelly. It's throwing me off

Confession - I’ve lived in New York for 20+ years and have never A) been to the Statue of Liberty or B) the top of the rock

I’m addicted to online blackjack

I'm plopped on the floor buzzed, single AF, surrounded by cats, and I have no regrets tonight.

Half the reason I work out is to make my ex jealous

All of us want the same thing! Money- Flex Timing- Great Culture- Respect - Value in what we are doing!
We, the employees make an organization. If all of us want the same thing, how come the culture of that organization still remains the same! Why can’t we be the pioneer? Thoughts…

Does Chicago have a secret sex society ?

What is “the 71”?